According to her birth certificate, Mary Old was born at Trevear, St Merryn, Cornwall on the 17th March 1850 (although in the 1939 Register her birthdate was recorded as the 16th March). Her mother was Betsy Old but no father was recorded. This information was confirmed when Mary was baptised[1][2] a day later on the 18th March 1850 as Mary Old, daughter of Betsy, spinster, living at Trevear (which is a hamlet of St Merryn). We can't say for sure that Richard Gregor was her biological father but her mother Betsy did marry him a month later. From then on she was known as Mary Old Gregor.
In her first census in 1851, 'Mary Old Griggor' was recorded as being aged one, born in St Merryn, the daughter of Richard (agricultural labourer) and Elizabeth. They were living at Trevear, a hamlet in St Merryn.
By the 1861 Census, Mary has four younger siblings and they have moved to Trevorgus Cottages, St Merryn. Parents Richard (38) and Betsy (31) are working as an agricultural labourer and dressmaker respectively, and the children are listed as Mary (11), Louisa (9), William (7), Lenora (5) and John (2). I bet that Mary was helping her mother either with the extra childcare, house duties or dressmaking!
Nine years later, after their banns being read on the 13th, 20th and 27th November 1870, Mary married a local lad, John Rosevear, in St Merryn on the 10th December 1870. John was recorded as a bachelor of full age, a labourer who marked his name with a cross. He was resident in St Merryn, and his father was John Rosevear, labourer. Mary Gregor was described as a minor and spinster, resident in St Merryn with a father, Richard Gregor, labourer. Mary signed her name as Mary Griggor and the witnesses were Henry Burden and 'Lewisa Griggor' (Mary's sister, Louisa).
Mary must have been about six months' pregnant when she married because their first child, Mary Louisa Rosevear, was born at Church Town, St Merryn on the 25th March 1871. In their first married census, John and Mary, plus baby Mary Louisa, are living with John's widowed mother, Betsy Rosevear, at Church Town. Betsy is working as a charwoman and John as an agricultural labourer.
In the next census in 1881, John and Mary had moved to 'Cottages', St Merryn. The couple now had two sons: William Francis, born in 1873 and known as Frank, and James Albert, born in 1875. (Daughter Louisa, aged ten, was staying with her grandmother, Betsy.) John was still working as an agricultural labourer but, sadly, this was to be his last census.
Husband John died at Trevone (between St Merryn and Padstow) on the 16th June 1887. According to his death certificate, he was a farm labourer and the certified cause of death was 'Congestion of Lungs 42 days and Pleurisy 14 days'. His brother, William Rosevear, marked his name and registered the death on the 18th June 1887. John was buried at St Merryn on the 18th June 1887.
Poor Mary, widowed at the age of 37 with three children to raise. In the 1891 Census she was living at Trevone and working as a charwoman. She was recorded as the head of the family and living with her son, Francis (17, an agricultural labourer), her youngest brother Joseph (23, also an agricultural labourer), and her nephew Richard (9, at school, an illegitimate son of her sister, Louisa). At least the family had three incomes between them.
In the next census in 1901, Mary was still working as a charwoman but had moved back to St Merryn. She was the head of the family, living at Water Cottages with her two sons (Francis, 27, and Albert, 26) who were both single and working as agricultural labourers, plus two grandchildren (John aged 7 and Mary H. aged 2).
Mary was not working in the 1911 Census but she was still living at Shop (a hamlet of St Merryn). She was recorded as a widow, aged 61, and born in the same village. Also living there was her son, William Francis (an unmarried farm labourer, aged 38) and her son, James Albert (an umarried stone quarryman, aged 36) plus her grandson John (a farm labourer, aged 17).
There were many mistakes in the 1939 Register. Mary was recorded as single instead of widowed and her date of birth was given as the 16th March 1850 (when her birth certificate said it was the 17th) but she was incapacitated so we don't know who actually gave the information. Mary was living at Water Cottages, St Merryn alongside her sister Louisa (also incapacitated), her daughter Mary Louisa (who remained single), and her grandson John Rosevear, a quarryman and the only one with a paid occupation.
According to her death certificate, Mary died on the 16th January 1944 at Chyan-porth, Trevone, Padstow, Cornwall. She was 93 years old, the widow of John Rosevear, a farm labourer. The certified cause of death was Senile Myocarditis and General Arterio-sclerosis, and was registered on the 25th January 1944 by Hilda Mary Baker, her granddaughter. She is buried at St Merryn in a shared grave (see image) with her two sons and her grandson, bless them all.
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