She was born about 1818 in Wayne County, North Carolina, USA and was the daughter of Rhoda and David Reed.
Tabitha "Bitha" Reed or Reid or Ried first married Jacob Coley.
Tabitha married secondly in December 1867 in Wayne, North Carolina, USA to Everett Hays. [1]
She died about 1880 in North Carolina, USA
Sources
↑ "North Carolina, County Marriages 1762-1979" on FamilySearch database with images (https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:QKJ9-3H5V : 04 Nov 2017) citing North Carolina State Archives Division of Archives and History; FHL#508,745; p3; m: Dec 1867 Wayne County, North Carolina, USA
for Tobitha Reid (parents: Rhoda & David Reid) & Everett Harp (sic Hays) (father: Moses Word & mother: Lydia Hays)
1850 USA Census of Neuse (north side), Wayne County, North Carolina; on ancestry.com which included (all race: black) ...