Nathaniel Stanley, was born about 1636, son of Thomas and Bennett (Tritton) Stanley, a younger son of the earl of Derby, who came from London about 1634, first of Lynn and then was one of the original proprietors of Hartford. In 1659, the family removed to Hadley. 
He removed to Hadley with his father, but later returned to Hartford in 1665. 
He inherited his father's house and lands in Hartford, as specified in the will of his father Thomas Jan. 19, 1659/60 and that of his mother, Bennett Wilterton/Wolterton's will, dated Nov. 1, 1664. 
Served on the Committee of War for Hartford county. 
Connecticut: Minutes of the Court of Assistants, 1669-1711. (Online database. AmericanAncestors.org. New England Historic Genealogical Society, 2013.) Originally published as: Colony of Connecticut, Minutes of the Court of Assistants, 1669-1711, by Helen Schatvet Ullmann, CG, FASG. Boston: New England Historic Genealogical Society, 2009.
He married Sarah Boosey at Harford on June 2, 1659.  Sarah was born at Wethersfield on Nov. 12, 1643, the daughter of James and Alice Boosey. 
Sarah's father James died about June 22, 1649, leaving part's of his estate to his minor children, including Sarah. On May 15, 1668, Nathaniel Stanley, among others petitioned the court to retain the legal rights of James heirs, now held by her mother Alice Wakely, until after Alice's death. After Alice's 1683 death, Nathaniel and his brother-in-law instituted legal proceedings regarding land claims from James estate. 
His widow Sarah died on died August 18, 1716, aged seventy-six. 
Nathaniel, born Jan. 5, 1664/5 ; died April 12, 1665. (p. 304)
Sarah, born Aug. 24, 1669 ; died Nov. 28, 1689. 
Joseph, born Feb. 20, 167 1 ; died March 18, 1676. 
Hannah, born Sept. 30, 1674 ; died Oct. 31, 1681. 
Mary, born Oct. 8, 1677 ; married Nathaniel Hooker December 22, 1698. After his death she married second, John Austin in 1713. 
Susanna, born April 13, 1681 ; died Sept. 18, 1683. 
Nathaniel, born July 9, 1683 ; died August 17, 1755; married Anna Whiting on November 14, 1706. 
So, http://www.geni.com/people/Nathaniel-Stanley/6000000002303487011 is showing a Nathaniel Stanley with these dates with a mother's name of Bennet Tritton...and with different siblings. There appears to be two different Nathaniel Stanleys with exactly the same dates!!!.... so who do the dates really belong to? Likely this Nathaniel
↑ 1.01.11.2 Great Migration, Immigrants to New England, 1634-1635, Volume VI, R-S, by Robert Charles Anderson. Boston: New England Historic Genealogical Society, 2009. (Online database. AmericanAncestors.org. New England Historic Genealogical Society, 2012.)
↑ 4.04.1 Great Migration: Immigrants to New England, 1634-1635, Volume I, A-B, by by Robert Charles Anderson. Boston: New England Historic Genealogical Society, 1999 (Online database. AmericanAncestors.org. New England Historic Genealogical Society, 2008.)
↑ 5.05.1 The New England Historical and Genealogical Register, Vol. 23, NEHGS, Boston, MA, 1869
↑ 6.06.16.26.18.104.22.168.7 Hartford CT: Connecticut Vital Records to 1870 (The Barbour Collection), AmericanAncestors.org, New England Historic Genealogical Society, 2011.) From original typescripts, Lucius Barnes Barbour Collection, 1928.
↑ Hadley: Vol. 1: Massachusetts Vital Records to 1850 (Online Database: AmericanAncestors.org, New England Historic Genealogical Society, 2001-2010).
angelfire site & geni site showing Bennett Tritton and geni is showing death in 1712...in fact the same death date as Stanley-1056 who seems to be a different Nathaniel Stanley with a different mother's name and different siblings!