Elizabeth was born about 1790 & on all the census entries says born Ifield. But no Rapley baptism for Elizabeth found, she may of course have been married before 1817 and been widowed.
Marriage: John Rapley & Elizabeth Stedman 3 Nov 1817 Horsham, Sussex, England "England Marriages, 1538–1973 ," database, FamilySearch 
|1841 census Ifield|
|1851 census Ifield|
1861 census ???
|1871 census Ifield (with son Stephen & his family)|
She passed away in 1873 Ifield  age 84yrs.
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