Lisa Wilcox
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Lisa Wilcox

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Lisa M. Wilcox aka Metcalf
Born 1970s.
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Sister of [private brother (1960s - unknown)]
Mother of [private son (1990s - unknown)]
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FOUND!!! Thank you all for your help. I have found both of my dads Birth families and he has 5 siblings, although only 2 welcomed my dad with Open arms. . I am just glad I found them before my dad passed away on -2-22-2020.

I am doing this Dna thing for my Dad. All my life I have known that not only was my dad Adopted, so was my Mom and her twin sister. My mom and her sister found their birth mothers family and found out they have a sister. I would like my dad to know the feeling of finding a birth family member. I have spent the better part of the last 15 plus years trying to find my dads Birth family, but it's difficult with no names.. For his 70th birthday this year he was given a 23andme DNA test. We got the results back in April and there are over 1200 cousins, but One first cousin, but she too was adopted and doesn't know her birth family. I don't know the first thing about reading and understanding Dna results etc. I have posted my dads raw DNA on FTDNA, Gedmatch, MyHeritage. If I could add his raw DNA to Ancestry I would, but I can't and he doesn't have the xtra money to do an Ancestry DNA test. I am determined to find someone in his birth family so he knows the feeling my mom felt when she found her birth mothers family.


my father was born in Santa Cruz California and was adopted at birth. He was born on February 19,1947 at 8:08 am at the old Dominican hospital.

he was told that his birth mother was 19 years old { born 1928} was 5ft 6in from San Francisco Ca. She had long dark hair and Blue eyes. and had a Brother who worked at a claims department at a Steamship Company. her parents got divorced when she was 3 months old. her mother remarried in 1939. her step father worked for a car company for 25 years. he also worked as a starter at a ferry building. FOUND!!!

His Birth father was Tall, blonde hair Merchant Marine from Texas, spent 20 years in the service and could have been somewhere close to his 40's or older when my dad was born..If all my information is right, then his birth father had to have been in San Francisco Ca in May 1946.

Then my dad, Thomas Monroe Metcalf was adopted by Al and Betty Metcalf.. They lived on Water Street in Santa Cruz and also lived on118 STANFORD AVE IN SANTA CRUZ CA. he was told that his birth mother would drive by their house and watch my dad from a distance.

Birth mother was French and Irish Birth father was of Irish descent

The California Birth index 1970

The Nevada Marriage index- James Thomas Jones Litchford Nevada Divorce Records

The Nevada Marriage index - Christopher Lee Sutton Nevada Divorce Records

The Nevada Marriage index Kevin Michael Wilcox


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Best of luck on your search! I was formally adopted and my husband's Dad wasn't Dad. I took from 2007 when he y-DNA tested to 2015 to finally get close enough matches for me to figure out his birth father. All we knew was truck driver named "Frank". Thanks to my effort of making descendant trees from 3rd cousin matches from various services, and finding the person in the right place, right time, right occupation. He got a new 1/2 brother that became a best friend! I had my adoption records opened by the court and found my birth family living around me..... I truly hope you are able to figure it out and give him that gift, it really isn't as hard as all that if you use the matches and get some of them to communicate with you is the hardest part.
posted by Loretta Morrison
edited by Loretta Morrison
Thank you so much. Through Ancestry and a lot of work I was able to find my Dads birth Family before he passed away.💜
posted by Lisa Wilcox
Thank you, and good luck in the search for your dad's biological family TWIG. I too am a Native California, but retired and now in Colorado. If I can help plz just hollar...
posted by Carole Taylor
Hi Lisa, I thought I would mention the Adopted Child Template in case you have any interest in using it for either of your parents or your aunt. I use it on my own profile, as I'm an adoptee.
posted by Lita Christopher
Good luck on your search for your dad. =)
posted by Tony Woods
Lisa! Your family story is sooo interesting!:)
posted by [Living Ogle]
Hi Lisa, I just wanted to say "Congratulations" on becoming one of the newest Blue Badged "Generous Genealogist", Your dedication to Wikitree has been noticed and appreciated by others. Thank you!!

Dorothy B. PS: Nice write-up on your profile!!

posted by Dorothy Barry
Hello again!

This week we have your last stop on the guided tour. We want to give you just a few more tools that can take you even deeper into the WikiTree forest without getting lost: How to Dig a Little Deeper.

As always, your questions are welcome!

Vicky Majewski ~ WikiTree Mentor

Hi!

There's a fast and easy way to access your WikiTree profiles using the Watchlist. So, this week we're going to look at How to Manage Your Watchlist.

Please let me know if you have questions! Just click my name above the comment, then ask in the comment section of my page.

Vicky Majewski ~ WikiTree Mentor

Lisa--

You've been here for three weeks now! We hope your profiles are starting to come together and that you've enjoyed getting to know all of us a little better. You're probably getting a good feel for the collaborative nature of WikiTree by now. We know that collaboration isn't always easy. So, we've put together a few pointers that can make working in this type of environment a little easier: How to be a Successful WikiTreer. As always, your questions are welcome!

Gilly

posted by [Living Wood]
Hello Lisa

You may be interested in our WikiTree Adoption Angels Project.

You can also use the Help menu in the upper right corner of every page to get to the G2G Forum to ask questions about how to use WikiTree in your adoption search, or find some basic adoption search help here.

By adding your branches to our shared tree, there may be an opportunity for someone to find you, AND adding your branches and working to source and confirm that information will get you closer to the end of your search.

Thanks, Cindy

Lisa

It's time for your next stop on your guided tour. This week, we'd like to introduce you to our community and show you some ways to get more involved and stay up to date on everything that's going on: How to Join in the Community.

As always, your questions are welcome!

Thanks, WikiMessenger Cindy

PS Good work so far! Have you noticed on your ancestor profiles on the bottom right is "Research" where you can get sources and more information? Give it a try sometime!


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