According to findagrave, she is"Buried in Brownstown, Jackson County, Indiana, USA. assumed to be buried near her husband as she died around 3 years after him ." (husband's gravesite obit says she is shown in family records to be buried here..."
Grave and burial -https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/161127338/mary-jane-vermilya Obituary and other resources found on findagrave - Brownstown, Jackson County, Indiana, USA. "Mary and Solomon had five children: William Burr, Phebe Burr, Hetty Ann, Wright, and Agnes Adaline. (Courtesy of Terry Trackwell Kuhnau.)
Mary married a Dr. Robert Cavender of Courtland, Indiana after the death of her first husband. Mary and Robert (Cavander) are seen living with William, Phebe, Robert W. (Wright) and Agnes in the 1850 census of Hamilton, Jackson County, Indiana, in addition to 2 children of Robert's." On first husband's site is the following: "Listed as Solon in Brant & Fuller reference. Solomon came with his parents from New York State to Washington County, Indiana, in 1816; soon afterward [he was only 3 when he moved to Brownstown, so take this with a grain of salt] married and settled on a farm near Brownstown, where he lived until his death, which occurred in about the year 1848, his widow surviving him only a few years. . . 5 children. . . Both mother and father died before 4th child was only 8 years old.
from: Brant & Fuller, 1886: History of Jackson County, Indiana & David Benton, Jr. and Sarah Bingham, Their Ancestors and Descendants; and Other Ancestral Lines, John Hogan Benton of Washington D.C., 1906"
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