Mary was born about 1871 in Russia to Kazimerz Wishnenski and Euzifini. She spoke only Polish. She was married first to Charles Fisher. Mary remarried shortly after the death of her first husband to Benedikt Solomewich on 16 March 1911 in Centralia, Washington; they were divorced almost two months later on 6 May 1911. Mary was granted the use of her previous name by the court in the divorce. She died April 24, 1943, in Seattle, Washington, and was buried by Booth Ashmore Mortuary at Calvary Cemetery, Seattle, Washington on 29 April 1943.[1] [2] On the 1920 US Census it shows that Mary's father was German and her mother was Russian.[3]
'My grandmother, Mary's daughter, Billie Fisher Flynn' told us a story about her mother remarrying very shortly after her father (Charles Fisher) died. The new husband had Mary send the children to a friend's farm to stay while they got settled and they were to send for them. However, it turned out that he didn't want the children, he only wanted Mary. Billie said he was a mean man and chased her mother around the house with a knife when he was "in the mood to do so". Mary left him very soon after they were married and divorced him, asking the court to give her back her previous married name of Fisher (which was granted).[4]
Here is a marriage certificate for Mary Fischer and Benedikt Solomewich for 16 March 1911 in Centralia[4] and there were divorce papers filed very soon after on the 29th of March 1911[5] which tells a similar story to the one my grandmother recalled from when she was six years old. The divorce papers tell this story:
Benedict promised to take care of Mary and her three children if she married him. He said he was a man of means and that she would not have to work outside the home. Mary also was led to believe they would make their home in Centralia, Washington, where the Fisher family was living at the time. So she must have agreed and they were married on 16 March 1911.
On the day after the wedding, things were different. Benedict ordered Mary to go with him to Aberdeen, Wash., where Benedict had a one-room "filthy and ill-kept bachelors shack." When Mary said she wanted to stay in Centralia, Benedict threatened her with a butcher knife in front of the children.
Fearing for her life, Mary and the kids went with Benedict to Aberdeen. The living conditions in Aberdeen were bad in the on room house; they had no privacy, Benedict refused to "properly" feed the kids nor would he let Mary do so. He ordered Mary about like a "slave", often hitting her and chasing her about the house and cursing her in front of the kids and threatening to kill her if she didn't obey him.
Mary became so concerned for the children that they went to live with kind neighbors, but that didn't resolve the issue and Mary being miserable and unhappy sued Benedict for divorce by the end of March 1911.
The divorce was granted on the grounds of extreme cruelty on the 6th of May 1911. Mary, who petitioned to have the use of her former name of Mary Fischer was granted her wish, and both parties were ordered to not contract into another marriage with a third party for six months. ~ Gerrie Bartholomew[6]
Note: Born 1870/1874 to Kazimerz WISHNENSKI and Euzefini. (DOCUMENTATION May Be Leading Elsewhere). So far Mary had the following maiden names that her children used on documents: Grazdofski (death certificate), Grudzodolski (John J. Fisher’s delayed birth certificate), and Rosenberg/Roseberg (used on both son’s Social Security Applications). She was very likely of Polish descent because she spoke Polish, but she claimed to be German if you asked her and was listed as Russian and speaking Russian Polish on the census.
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