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Mary Frothingham Brinley (1909 - 1985)

Mary Frothingham Brinley
Born in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, United Statesmap
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Died at age 75 in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, United Statesmap
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Mary Frothingham Brinley, born June 1, 1909, in Philadelphia. Mary's family name was Polly. Polly attended the Shady Hill Country Day School prior to attending a boarding school: the Ethel Walker School in Simsbury, Conn. She died May 13, 1985, of complications after a ballon surgery while at the Medical College of Pennsylvania.[1] By her will, she was cremated and buried at the backside of St. Pauls Episcopal Church grounds, Chestnut Hill Ave, Chestnut Hill. Prior to her death, she was living with Frances Ruegg (her long-time friend) and then alone at Cathedral Village, Roxbury, Pa. Her life was amazing and adventurous. She never married but had many suiters in the debutant years. She loved to travel the world with friends. She first rented apartments above garages: one at the Whitakers on Moreland Ave and then the Lisingrings on Crefelt (the first house off of Chestnut Hill Ave on left) prior to buying a house at 7808 Roanoke all in Chestnut Hill, a house in the Poconos (owned about 10 years), a summer house called the "Pill Box" in North Haven, Maine. Located above and behind her parent's house. The "Pill Box" was so named since she had bought it from the Islands Doctor in the 1950s. After the two Aunts sold their house at 7808 Roanoke, They moved into an apartment in Cathedral Village,

She opened a book store first in Germantown and then in Chestnut Hill, called the Frigate Book Store In Chestnut Hill, it was located just steps from the center of Chestnut Hill and Germantown Ave. at 16 East Highland Ave. The Frigate Book store motto was "There is no frigate like a book To take us lands away." [2] The building was a one-story wood building with a small parking lot in front. Every year, there was held for the benefit of the community and local artists, a "Clothes Line Art Show" in their parking lot. After the store was sold in 1971, the new owner, Tom Emmons removed it for a more substantial and bigger building.


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  1. Philadelphia Inquirer, Phila., Pennsylvania. Mary Frothingham Brinley died at 75. May 15, 1985. page. 64. Obituary provided to the Philadelphia Inquirer. "BRINLEY May 13, 1985, Mary Frothingham Brinley, (Polly) of Cathedral Village, sister of William W.F. Brinley, aunt of Dorothy B. Manou, Helen B. Abraham, Charles E. Brinley, and William F. Brinley. Service of Thanksgiving for the life and work of Miss Brinley will be held at St. Paul's Church, Chestnut Hill on Sat., May 18, at 2 pm., will be in the Columbarium of St. Paul's Church. In lieu of flowers, contributions should be sent to The American Civil Liberties Union Foundation, 21 S. 5th St., room 680, Philadelphia, Pa., 19106 (JACOB F. RUTH)." and May 17, 1985. page 34.
  2. "Dear Customers and Friends, Good News for Chestnut Hill from The Frigate Book Shop in its 48th year... The present owners: Mary F. Brinley, Mary Steward Hatfield, and Francis Ruegg announce with pleasure that Mr. and Mrs. Thomas P. Emmons have bought the Frigate Book Shop..." The letter is the original. There is a second letter noting that March 1, 1971, would be the Sale Date.
  • Personal recollection of events witnessed by Frazier Brinley as remembered starting on 7 Jun 2020.
  • Philadelphia Inquirer, Phila., Pennsylvania. Mary Frothingham Brinley died at 75. May 15, 1985. page. 64.




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The Medical College of Philadelphia was located in the East Falls section of Philadelphia. My wife and I called Polly the day before the operation and after the surgery, both times, she was in good spirits. We suggested that we come down and visit her in the hospital and she said that she would be out of the hospital in a day. She suggested that we make plans to visit her in North Haven.
posted 12 Sep 2020 by Frazier Brinley   [thank Frazier]
My Aunt Polly was like another parent, who had a good understanding of her nieces and nephews. Every Christmas, we all received books and games. She knew what we liked. I received the Landmark series books on inventions and the people who made those inventions. The books encompassed the American Revolution and those who made the sacrifices... She loved jigsaw puzzles and she somehow captured our interest in them.

One of my favorite stories was about my teddy bears. When I got to be 10 or 11 or 12. My parents noted that it was time for me to grow up and stop sucking my thumb and hugging bears. So, they put terrible tasting stuff on my thumb at night and took all my bears away. I did stop sucking probably because of peer pressure at camp Chenango. But the bear problem was something else. Aunt Polly gave me one for Christmas just a few months after mom and dad had taken the other bears. I'm thinking that somehow she noted to them, when I was ready, I would move on... If anything, the opposite happened. When I visited them in North Haven, some 30 years later. In the back seat or hatch-back. I would put notes on the bears with sayings like "we are going on vacation to see Gramma and Grandpa." I have never stopped hugging and loving stuffed bears. They listen and don't talk back. They make good pillows and don't smell. They can be easily washed. So when I travel by car, Sticky Nose and Andy-Pandy are always with me.

A final note: Bears had no place in my life from 1964 to 1979. Joyce's mother, Gramma ma gave me a small bear in 1979 to keep me comfort on my trip to Maine. Sometime later, Joyce got a larger bear named Andy Pandy and then another brown bear. That bear just was more of a show bear. So Joyce got another larger bear that loved strawberry jam. We named him stickynose. I'm guessing that Stickynose is at least 30 years old and Andy Pandy is 40. The grandchildren loved to play with both bears.

I love Sticky Nose. He is my buddy and a good listener.

posted 15 Aug 2020 by Frazier Brinley   [thank Frazier]
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