As a teen, Bob served as Scout Leader for the Aylmer, Quebec, troop while the adult leaders were serving in WWII. On his 18th birthday, Bob volunteered for the army. However, WWII recruitment was starting to wind down so the doctors were getting more particular. As Dad put it, "an attractive nurse came in to prep him for the medical so he sat up and puffed out his chest. Then the doctor put the stethoscope on him and commanded, 'Breathe in!' Failed the exam - sub-normal chest expansion"[3].
During university and through 1953, Bob worked a number of jobs:
Summer survey work in the north but quit mid-season because of the isolation and bugs[3].
Teller for the then Dominion Bank. One day Bob was asked to carry a sum of cash and cheques to the bank exchange and swap them for cheques drawn on Dominion Bank. Insurance required that the courier be armed so his boss put an unloaded gun in one of Bob's pockets and a few bullets in another with the instructions "Don't touch the gun! If held up, simply hand over the cash!" Dad stated he was never so nervous as he was that first time[3].
Circa 1946, Bob took a date to a dance, but she had used Bob to get into the dance then dumped him. Bob spotted a young lady, Audrey Smith, on the sidelines and they talked (and danced). This was the beginning of a relationship that resulted in 60+ years of marriage[3].
Bob and Audrey attended the same church in 1948[7].
Headquarters in Ottawa from 1959 on. At HQ, he served as Director in Program, Relationships and Information Services[24], and in Communications Services.
He had to work every Scout Jamboree, often as Press Liaison.
Following a change of management at Scouts Canada, Dad retired on 30 Mar 1989, a few years early. When his boss asked how he could afford to retire, Dad responded, "how could he afford not to?" Upon retirement, 15 Feb 1989, he was contracted to BSC to work as Museum Coordinator.
In the late '60s, Bob, with help from family and friends, built the family cottage at Mississippi Lake from scratch. Mom and Dad spent $2000 for the property and $2000 for a pile of construction materials. Dad took it from there calling on friends as needed. To save money, the original interior walls were made of 1x2's covered in heavy cardboard panels (3'x4'x.25") salvaged from Scouts Canada displays. Each panel was covered in Scouts Canada literature/flyers so we could lay in bed and read the walls. Over the years, the cottage was improved with siding over the original chipboard exterior, proper interior walls, electricity and plumbing, and a foundation.
In the mid-80's, the family had grown and the cottage wasn't being used as much. So Mom and Dad sold it and bought an RV. They bought it through a company (possibly RV Canada) who rented out the RV when Mom and Dad weren't using it. Once they retired, Mom and Dad took full-time possession of the vehicle and toured all over North America. Dad was also getting into genealogy at that time so he did research on several trips and ultimately delivered the Personal Ancestral File diskettes to Utah in person.
Ultimately, Mom and Dad sold the RV and bought a park model trailer at a resort in Tucson[34][35]. They made many close friends there and even taught line dancing. They also fell in love with south-west art and style which was reflected in their clothing and home decor.
Bob always loved to cook and could turn out some impressive meals with minimal equipment. Around 1970, Dad and several colleagues/friends from Scouts Canada formed a gourmet club where the gentlemen would take turns preparing lavish meals with wines and drinks for the other members and their wives. Whenever it was Dad's turn, we kids benefited in the preceding days as he tried out his recipes.
Given that Scouts Canada paid modest salaries, Bob and Audrey learned to economize. One such economy was to make wine. Mom and Dad acquired a book on wine making and experimented with many recipes - dandelion, potato, etc. One standard was a red made with Welch's Grape Juice.
Bob was a Genealogist.
As indicated above, Bob had several hobbies including square dancing, round dancing, line dancing (for which Mom and Dad led a group at the trailer park in Arizona), embroidery to decorate his western shirts, carving Kachina dolls, and genealogy. When Dad started on the family tree, Gary and Sue gifted him a copy of Personal Ancestral File on diskette for the Commodore 64. Dad dove in and his tree expanded to include thousands of persons. My (Gary's) work in WikiTree so far is simply following in Dad's footsteps.
Bob passed away 20 Dec 2014[36][37][38][39] and his cremated remains were interred at Pinecrest Cemetery[40].
Sources
↑ Clipping from unknown newspaper, page SIX, Announcements, Born
MILKS -- On Saturday, August 7, 1926, at Dr. Caven's Private Hospital, to Mr. and Mrs. H. E. Milks, a son, (nee Mildred Lonsdale).
↑ 2.02.12.2 New baby record booklet from Murphy Gamble Limited
Announcement page
Born at Ottawa on the 7th August Day of Saturday 1926 at 4.30 o'clock p.m. unto Mr. and Mrs. H. E. Milks a Aylmer Que
Physician Dr. Caven
Nurse Miss Baxter
Baby was Weighed This 7th Day of August 1926 8 lbs 3 ozs pounds 3 ounces Height ___ inches.
The Evening Citizen (Ottawa, Ontario, Canada) - 17 Mar 1948, Wed - Page 10
McLeod
The regular meeting of this YPU opened with a sing-song led by Bess Tullis which was followed by a worship service led by Audrey Smith. Missions Convener Bess Tullis assisted by members of her group, Gladys Bowden and Bob Milks, presented a program on "Missions on the East Coast and Labrador."
The Ottawa Journal (Ottawa, Ontario, Canada) - 06 Jan 1949, Thu - Page 12
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ENGAGED: Miss Audrey Smith, daughter of Mr. Robert Smith and the late Mrs. Smith, of Ottawa, and Mr. Robert Ernest Milks, son of Mr. and Mrs. H. E. Milks of Aylmer, Que., whose engagement is announced. The marriage will take place on February 19.
Engaged
Miss Audrey Smith, daughter of Mr. Robert Smith and the late Mrs. Smith, of Ottawa, and Mr. Robert Ernest Milks, son of Mr. and Mrs. H. E. Milks of Aylmer, Que., whose engagement is announced. The marriage will take place on February 19 at McLeod street United Church.
↑ Ontario, Canada, The Ottawa Journal (Birth, Marriage and Death Notices), 1885-1980 for Audrey Emily Smith, 1949-1950, 1949-Jan-01 to 1949-Jan-31
The Ottawa Journal (Ottawa, Ontario, Canada) - 06 Jan 1949, Thu - Page 26
SMITH-MILKS --- The engagement is announced of Audrey Emily Smith, daughter of Mr. and the late Mrs. Robert Smith, to Robert Ernest Milks, son of Mr. and Mrs. H. E. Milks. Wedding to take place February 19 at McLeod St. United Church.
TO BE MARRIED -- Miss Audrey Smith, daughter of Robert Smith and the late Mrs. Smith, and Robert Ernest Milks, son of Mr. and Mrs. H. E. Milks of Aylmer, Que., whose engagement is announced. The wedding will take place February 19, at McLeod street United church. (with photos)
SMITH---MILKS -- The engagement is announced of Miss Audrey Smith, daughter of Mr. Robert Smith and the late Mrs. Smith, of Ottawa, to Robert Ernest Milks, son of Mr. and Mrs. H. E. Milks of Aylmer, Que. Wedding to take place February 19, at McLeod street United church.
Among out-of-town guests attending the wedding of Miss Audrey Smith and Robert E. Milks this afternoon are Mr. and Mrs. Robert Russell of Montreal and Mr. and Mrs. Lyall Dunning of Trenton, Ont.
Rev. W. H. Shaver solemnized the marriage in McLeod Street United church Saturday afternoon when Audrey Smith, daughter of R. Smith and the late Mrs. Smith, became the bride of Robert E. Milks, son of Mr. and Mrs. H. E. Milks of Aylmer, Que.
Mixed spring flowers decorated the church for the ceremony at which Mrs. M. McIntyre was soloist and Mrs. Lillian Forsythe presided at the organ.
Given in marriage by her uncle, James Dunning, the bride wore a gown of white satin with sheer yoke, fitted bodice and full skirt falling into a slight train She carried a cascade bouquet of red roses.
A reception was held in the church auditorium following the ceremony.
As the newlyweds left on a wedding trip to Montreal, the bride wore a suit of green gabardine with matching accessories and winter white hat. Her corsage bouquet was of yellow roses.
Mr. and Mrs. Milks will return to make their home at 624 Gladstone Avenue, Ottawa.
MILKS---SMITH -- On Saturday, February 19, 1949, at McLeod St. United church, Ottawa, Ont., Audrey Emily Smith, daughter of Mr. R. Smith and the late Mrs. Smith of Ottawa, to Robert Ernest Milks, son of Mr. and Mrs. H. E. Milks of Aylmer, Que.
The Ottawa Journal (Ottawa, Ontario, Canada) - 21 Feb 1949, Mon - Page 13
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(Photo caption) MR. AND MRS. ROBERT MILKS, shown following their wedding in McLeod Street United Church Saturday afternoon. Mrs Milks was the former Miss Audrey Smith, daughter of Mr. R. Smith and the late Mrs. Smith; the bridegroom is the son of Mr. and Mrs. H. E. Milks, of Aylmer, Que.
Milks---Smith
Rev. W. H. Shaver officiated at the marriage ceremony of Miss Audrey Smith, daughter of Mr. R. Smith and the late Mrs. Smith, to Mr. Robert Milks, son of Mr. and Mrs. H. E. Milks, of Aylmer, Que., which took place on Saturday afternoon at three o'clock in McLeod Street United Church.
The wedding music was played by Mrs. Lillian Forsythe and Mrs. M. McIntyre was the soloist. Mixed spring flowers decorated the church.
For her marriage the bride chose a white satin gown designed with a sheer yoke, fitted bodice and a full skirt falling into a slight train. A finger-tip veil fell from a coronet headdress and she carried a cascade bouquet of red roses.
Following a reception, the couple left on a trip to Montreal. Mrs. Milks traveled in a green gabardine suit with green accessories and a Winter white hat. Her corsage bouquet was of yellow roses.
Mr. and Mrs. Milks will reside in Ottawa.
Among the out-of-town guests were Mr. and Mrs. Robert Russell, of Montreal; and Mr. and Mrs. Lyall Dunning, of Trenton, Ont.
↑ Ontario, Canada, The Ottawa Journal (Birth, Marriage and Death Notices), 1885-1980 for Robert Ernest Milks, 1949-1950, 1949-Feb-01 to 1949-Feb-28
The Ottawa Journal (Ottawa, Ontario, Canada) - 21 Feb 1949, Mon - Page 24
MILKS-SMITH---On Saturday, February 19, 1949, at McLeod St. United Church, Ottawa, Ont., by the Reverend W. H. Shaver, Audrey Emily Smith, daughter of Mr. R. Smith and the late Mrs. Smith, of Ottawa, to Robert Ernest Milks, son of Mr. and Mrs. H. E. Milks, Aylmer, Que.
Times Colonist (Victoria, British Columbia, Canada) - 14 Oct 1954, Thu - Page 14
(Photo caption) NEW CITY COMMISSIONER of Scouting is Robert Milks, 28, of Ottawa, who succeeds retired executive commissioner, Freeman King."
Bob Milks Succeeds Scouter Freeman King
Young Executive Commissioner to Meet District Scout Leaders Here Monday
New Victoria district executive Boy Scout commissioner, Robert Milks, 28, Ottawa, will be introduced to district Scout leaders at a reception Monday in First United Church Hall.
He will replace recently retired Freeman King in the district's top executive position, which administers approximately 2,000 Scouts and Cubs from Victoria to Sooke and Sidney.
Commissioner Milks arrived in Victoria Saturday, driving a new Scout automobile from the east.
Most of the commissioners life was spent in Ottawa and Aylmer, Que. He joined the movement at age 11, became Cubmaster and Scoutmaster before joining the permanent staff in January this year.
Times Colonist (Victoria, British Columbia, Canada) - 01 Mar 1955, Tue - Page 20
JORDAN RIVER SCOUTS, CUBS TOP CANADA
JORDAN RIVER --- Robert Milks, Boy Scout executive commissioner, told Scouts and Cubs here that the Jordan River district has the largest per capita registration of Scouts and Cubs of any area in Canada.
He spoke at the second annual father and son banquet of the Scout group, held at Poinnt No Point Resort. Keith Reeves proposed a toast to the fathers and introduced Mr. Milks.
Times Colonist (Victoria, British Columbia, Canada) - 13 Dec 1957, Fri - Page 3
(Photo caption) ROBERT MILKS ... resigns.
Scout Chief Takes Post In Toronto
Robert E. Milks, executive commissioner of the Victoria district of the Boy Scouts Association, resigned Thursday to become field commissioner of the Greater Toronto area, it was announced today.
Mr. Milks, 31, has been commissioner of this area for three years and three months. He has been associated with scouting 19 years, and in an executive capacity 11 years.
His resignation is effective January 15, and he assumes his new duties immediately on arrival in Toronto.
A decentralization of scouting is underway in the district---which now embraces about 2,700 scouts aimed at bringing individual boys closer to district operations. In effect, this means smaller units.
"I hope that the reorganization in the district meets with success and proves to be an aid to scouting," Mr. Milks said.
Replacement for the executive commissioner has not yet been decided.
↑ Canada, Voters Lists, 1935-1980 for Audrey Milks; Ontario; York North; 1958
Library and Archives Canada; Ottawa, Ontario, Canada; Voters Lists, Federal Elections, 1935-1980; Reference Number: M-4988
Star-Phoenix (Saskatoon, Saskatchewan, Canada) - 20 Feb 1982, Sat - Page 62
Story: Editor and compiler Robert Milks discusses his new book "75 Years of Scouting in Canada" during the Saskatoon stop of his national tour to promote the book.
Passed away on Saturday, December 20, 2014, at aged 88 years. Beloved husband and best friend of Audrey (Smith). Father of Beverly Hobbs, Gary (Susan Fitak) and Lorraine Yaremchuk (Ken). Grandfather of Jennifer, Daniel, Sandra and Jesse Hobbs and Caitlin and Curtis Yaremchuk. Bob retired as Public Relations Director at the National Office of Scouts Canada in 1989. Cremation and interment in the mausoleum at Pinecrest Cemetery. A Celebration of his life will be held later. Donations may be made in his memory to the Museum Fund of Scouts Canada, 1345 Baseline Road, Ottawa, ON, K2C 0A7.
↑ Find a Grave, database and images (https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/201772012/robert-ernest-milks: accessed 05 April 2023), memorial page for Robert Ernest Milks (1926–20 Dec 2014), Find a Grave Memorial ID 201772012, citing Pinecrest Cemetery, Ottawa, Ottawa Municipality, Ontario, Canada; Maintained by Bruce Allen (contributor 49635168). Find A Grave: Memorial #201772012
Maternal relationship is confirmed by an AncestryDNA test match between Gary Milks and his second cousin "G.B.". Their most-recent common ancestors are their great grandparents, Arnold Lonsdale (1864-1949) and Agnes Zebiah (Cottrell) Lonsdale (1868-1915). Predicted relationship from AncestryDNA: 2nd-3rd Cousins, based on sharing 321 cM across 15 segments; Confidence: Extremely High.
(1) Robert Ernest Milks, b. 7 Aug. 1926, Ottawa; m. 19 Feb. 1949, Audrey Emily Cassels, b. Ottawa, dau. of Robert & Emily Melissa (Dunning) Cassels. Res. 751 Marigold Rd., Victoria, B.C., Can. Had dau.:
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