I take a tombstone and its inscription as definitive proof that a person existed; when it's a couple who shares a stone, there's two certain people, plus a definite relationship. I have having trouble finding parents for this particular couple, and since there's so many able hands here on WikiTree, I decided to put out a call for help regarding Birdsey Lewis (1809-1865) and his wife Eunice Amanda Beach (1811-1856.)
I found a birth record (Barbour Collection) for Birdsey, son of Nathan & Comfort Lewis, born in Stratford CT, 1796. Hard to imagine it would be off by a over a decade based on all the Census records I found for Birdsey. If Birdsey b. 1796 died young, perhaps Birdsey b. 1809 might be a necronym. However, there's no evidence for that, even if it's not ruled out.
Birdsey's wife, Eunice Amanda Beach was born 1811 according to the tombstone. We have a profile that might be a match, not sure. 1809 is pretty close to 1811 for a birth date. And, actually, we've also got another Eunice Beach b. 1809. I've marked them both as Unmerged Matches on Mrs. Birdsey Lewis's profile as I ponder this puzzle.
I don't always succeed, but I like to connect the profiles I add with tombstone pictures. Because I found a 1850 & 1860 Census with children for Birdsey & Eunice, I'm going to try and connect through them today.
Meanwhile, any help on finding parents for Birdsey b. 1809 and his wife Eunice Amanda b. 1811 would be welcome. Any progress on the unmerged matches would also be terrific!
For general context: Birdseye/Birdsey, Beach and Lewis are all surnames of early settlers in Stratford, CT. Long Hill Burial Ground, where Eunice & Birdsey are buried, is located in Trumbull, CT, which was separated out from Stratford in 1797.