Did she marry a Harry M Allen in 1951?
New York State Department of Health; Albany, NY, USA; New York State Marriage Index
Ancestry.com. New York State, Marriage Index, 1881-1967 [database on-line]. Lehi, UT, USA: Ancestry.com Operations, Inc., 2017.
Original data: New York State Marriage Index, New York State Department of Health, Albany, NY.
Here is his obituary.
Here is the obituary of his previous wife:
Here is a Find a Grave memorial that looks suspect:
Here is her obituary:
Here is the marriage of Etta’s niece mentioned in her obituary. The marriage record mentions her father Frank, who is Etta’s brother (determined by the 1880 census).
Marriage Record:
Source Information
Ancestry.com. New York, U.S., County Marriage Records, 1847-1849, 1907-1936 [database on-line]. Lehi, UT, USA: Ancestry.com Operations, Inc., 2016.
Original data: Marriage Records. New York Marriages. Various New York County Clerk offices.
Here is her birthdate, etc.:
Source: U.S., Social Security Death Index, 1935-2014
Here’s a bonus obituary (it pretty much ties all the names together).