Cathy Brightwell, what a lovely thing to read your focused criticisms of the unhealthy genealogical choices that hobbiest genealogists (and others?) make, might make, will make, and have made.
I'm interested in what others choose, but, alas, I too am lazy enough to make mistakes. I eventually find them and am mortified (ashamed unto DEATH) as a person who's tried earnestly to be accurate (sigh).
Earnestness and a sense of surety when selecting a relative are surely foolish things for an alert person to rely on.