Mary was born in 1841. She is the daughter of John Caley and Jane Hampton.
"United States Census, 1850," database with images, FamilySearch (https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:MXQN-5PW : 12 April 2016), Mary Coley in household of John Coley, Concord, Lake, Ohio, United States; citing family 180, NARA microfilm publication M432 (Washington, D.C.: National Archives and Records Administration, n.d.).
"United States Census, 1860", database with images, FamilySearch (https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:MCG8-GFP : 13 December 2017), Mary Culey in entry for John Culey, 1860.
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