Isaac Miller Jr (1812 - 1897)

Born 30 Jul 1812 in Farmers Station, Clinton, Ohio

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Died 9 May 1897 at age 84 in New Antioch, Clinton, Ohio, United States

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Biography

From the History of Clinton County, 1915 (edited):

The subject's grandfather Peter Miller was born in Wales in 1740. In young manhood he came to America, settling near Philadelphia Pennsylvania where he married Catherine Rhodes who was of Dutch descent and a Lutheran in her religious faith. To them were born five children John, Jacob, Abraham, Isaac and Elizabeth. Of these Isaac Sr was the subject's father and was born on February 5 1777. Peter moved with his family to Westmoreland county Pennsylvania and cleared land ready for farming. From here he enlisted in behalf of the colonies against the British during the war for independence but was wounded and sent to a hospital, where he died during the war, his burial place being unknown. He left his widow in severe financial straits and she was compelled to bind out the children in order to secure for them a living. Isaac Miller Sr one of these children was adopted at the age of nine months by John McKibben who in about 1786 removed to Bourbon county Kentucky. When Isaac Miller Sr was about twenty years of age he was sent to the Northwest Territory with a company of surveyors who John McKibben had employed to survey a twelve hundred acre tract of land which he had purchased. That tract then in the Throckmorton survey lies near Farmer Station on the Baltimore & Ohio railroad in Clinton county Ohio. Isaac Miller's duty was to supply this party of surveyors with fresh meat. In 1801 Mr McKibben gave Isaac Miller Sr two hundred acres of this tract in recognition of his faithful services. Thus Isaac Miller Sr became the first of the family to permanently locate in Clinton county. On January 1 1804 he married Mary Stewart a native of Warren county Ohio and together they established their home in Clinton county. There they spent the remainder of their days. Their deaths occurred in the same month the father dying on January 5 1857 and the mother on January 27 1857. To them were born twelve children namely William, Elizabeth, Mary, Isaac Jr, Jane, Catherine, Hannah, Fletcher, Rebecca, James, Milton, and Margaret. Isaac Miller Sr became a soldier in the War of 1812 serving under Gen Allen Tremble at Ft Wayne. Isaac Miller Jr was born on July 30 1812 and remained on the home farm until twenty four years of age. On September 17 1835 he married Margaret Hildebrant who was born on February 26 1820 in Hunterton county New Jersey. Isaac Miller, Jr., became the father of the following children: Christopher Columbus, Ralph, Isaac N, William, Mary E who married John i i Vandewart, Lydia the wife of Joseph Hunter, Camelia the wife of Joel Johnson, Charles, Eva L the wife of Frederick Johnson, and Alice the wife of William Doke.

From "Biographical Sketch of Isaac Miller," written by the subject himself:

"My paternal grandfather, Peter Miller, was born in Wales about the year 1740, and came to America when a young man, settling in Pennsylvania not far from Philadelphia. In the course of time he became acquainted with a young woman by the name of Catharine Rhodes, who eventually became his wife. She was a native of America, but of Dutch decent, and a communicant of the Lutheran faith.

At the time of his marriage Peter was about 22 years old and Catharine a few years younger. The fruit of this union was four sons and one daughter- John, Jacob, Abraham, Isaac and Elizabeth. Isaac became my father, for whom I was named. He was born February 5, 1777.

After the marriage of my grand-parents they removed to Westmoreland County in the same state, and began farming, which occupation they maintained till grand-father was called to take up arms in defense of American Independence in the war of the Revolution.

No doubt he left his quiet little home and family, consisting of a wife and four children, with a sad heart, for he never returned to them. Four months after his entering the service of his adopted country my father, Isaac was born, but never had the pleasure of being cared for by his lamented father. Grand-father received wounds from which he died in the hospital and his place of burial is not known.

Grand-mother's fate was now sealed. She, being unable to provide for her children, was compelled to have them "bound out," as was the custom then, to different families. Thus the family tie was broken and the children widely separated.. When my father was nine months old he was adopted into the family of John McKibben, who proved to be a most worthy benefactor to him. In the course of time my grand-mother, who was bereft of all her children, married the second time. She choose a man by the name of Joseph Bowden, but the choice was an unfortunate one; he proved to be a wreck in profligacy and hence separation finally followed.

Her children had been taken away many years before, and so widely scattered that she had much difficulty in tracing them, but the, sequel will show that she spent her closing days with her son Isaac.

Strange to say, all these children grew to mature age, almost, if not quite, ignorant of each other's whereabouts, were married, and in the course of time, each discovered where the others resided, so arrangements were accordingly made to hold one grand family reunion- This reunion was held in Bourbon county, Kentucky, before the writer of this was born or about that time.

My uncle, John Miller, was married to Rebecca Jones in Clinton County, Ohio, about 1820, and remained in the county about 16 years, then he removed with his family to Howard county, Ind., where we believe he died. Uncle Jacob Miller lived and died in Bourbon County, Ky. Uncle Abraham Miller lived and died in Rush County, Ind. I have no knowledge of either of the above families at this date, nor have I knowledge of Aunt Elizabeth, who married William Calhoun, except that they lived and died in Bourbon County, Ky. John McKibben, in whose family father was raised, removed from Pennsylvania to Bourbon county Ky., about the year 1786.

When father was about 20 years old he was sent to the Northwest Territory with a company of surveyors whom John McKibben employed to survey a tract of land consisting of some 1,200 acres which he had purchased in the north east corner of the Throckmorton survey-said tract of land lying near- Farmers Station on the B. & 0. Ry,, Clinton county, 0. Father's duty on this trip was to provide the company with fresh meats; he was an expert with the gun, and was detailed to hunt deer, turkey or whatever game he should find fit for food. As there were no settlements near, and the country was an unbroken forest of heavy timber, and the Indians so numerous and troublesome, the party did not remain longer than to locate the claim.

After completing the survey the party returned to Kentucky, and shortly after father and Joseph McKibben concluded to go to Tennessee where they sought employment in the vicinity of Nashville. They were thus employed in various jobs on a farm for two years, when they again returned to Kentucky, where they remained but a short time.

In the year 1801 we find them back in the Northwest Territory, (Ohio was not then a state) and on the survey before mentioned. Father and Joseph McKibben began work on this survey in this year, clearing the land of timber and preparing it for future farming.

John McKibben, the proprietor of this estate, gave father a title for two-hundred acres, and he also gave each of the other children the same amount. Father became a favorite of John McKibben, so much so that be was appointed administrator of the McKibben estate.

On the first day of January, 1804, father was married to Mary Stewart, who then resided with her parents near Morrow in Warren county, Ohio. Immediately after their marriage they removed to the farm, which father had been preparing the past years. Here they reared a large family and here they toiled the remainder of their days.

Father died on the 5th of January, 1857, and mother on the 27th of January, 1857.

The fruit of this union was twelve children-William, Elizabeth, Mary, Isaac, Jane, Catharine, Hannah, Fletcher, Rebecca, James, Milton, and Margaret.

William removed to Iowa about the year 1840 and died there.

Elizabeth (Crawford) lived and died in this county and was buried near New Vienna,

Catherine (Hodson) lives at this date in Carthage, Missouri.

Mary (Clark) lived and died in this county, was buried near New Vienna in the year 1837.

Jane (Pittzer) lived in Fayette Co., 0., died and was buried in Jeffersonville in 1877. Her son, Dr. Pittzer, is a famous physician in St. Louis, Mo.

Hannah (Urton) resides near Clarksville and Margaret, who was never married, lives with her.

John Fletcher now resides in the village of New Vienna, had one daughter who died many years ago.

Milton lives in the neighborhood of Clarksville, 0.

Rebecca and James both died in youth and were buried near New Vienna.

Father was a soldier in the War of 1812. He was under the command of Gen. Allen Trimble, and was, sent out on his first reconnoiter to Fort Wayne, Ind., where his first duty was to build a block house as a protection against Indians at bay.

This fort was built on the headwaters of the Maumee River, and I believe stands to this day. I had the pleasure of visiting it in 1831. It was there then, and had been preserved in good condition up to that time.

On another occasion father was sent with squad of soldiers to Lower Sandusky. In this region there had been some fierce encounters with the Indians, but there was not on this trip any conflict with the savages, so father, after a few month's service, was discharged and honorably and finally mustered out of the service.

My maternal, grand-father's name was William Stewart. He was born in county Tyrone, Ireland, about the year A. D. 1757. In his youth he attended school in Dublin, and, during vacation, he in company with two of his companions determined to take a voyage to America, so, entering a sailing vessel, they started on their journey for the new world. After a tempestuous voyage of three months, they finally reached the wharves of Philadelphia. They were very much surprised on landing to find that war had been declared while they were at sea. Not only were they much surprised, but they found the colonists were, arrayed against the government of Great Britain, their own country. The vessel was at once taken in charge by the Americans and all on board were pressed into the service of the Americans. Whatever methods were used to compel them to enter the service in the war of the Revolution, it is true that grand-father became a soldier of that war, moreover, in the conflicts that he underwent he was seriously wounded with sword and bayonet, scars from, which he bore the remainder of his days. He was taken to the hospital in Philadelphia where he was cared for until he recovered his wonted strength.

It was here that he became acquainted one of the, assistant matrons of the hospital. It was here that he learned to value the friendship of Jane Armstrong. This Friendship ripened into courtship and marriage. They remained in the vicinity of Philadelphia on a farm for a few years when, after the manner of many families of that region, they concluded to go west. After making the needful preparation they fitted up the wagon with the necessary traveling outfit and so began their slow journey over the plains, mountains and rivers to the headwaters of the Ohio River. They arrived at the river in the course of time, landing at Fort Pitt, now the city of Pittsburg. Here their mode of travel was to be changed, aid the change was affected by preparing a water craft, or flatboat and loading all their goods on this boat, they began their journey down the river. This trip was accompanied by no little danger from the treacherous Indians whose lurking places were on either side of the river. The traveling was done mostly after night and no light was allowed on board because of these marauders, Notwithstanding all the difficulties and dangers, they landed safe at Red Bank, now Columbia, in the suburbs of Cincinnati. Here was the point of destination, and here they remained for a time. Grand-father made a tour of the surrounding country and finally purchased a farm on the Miami in Warren county, about two miles south of Morrow in said county. Here the family located and remained for many years. It was here that mother grew to womanhood, and where she was married to father.

After all the children were married grand-father sold the farm and moved to the neighborhood of Martinsville in Clinton county, At this time qrand-father, when he was about sixty years old, met with an accident by which he received injuries in his hip which forever thereafter compelled him to go on crutches. He remained in this condition about twenty years. Grand-mother Stewart died here about this time leaving grand-father alone, but he retired from the farm and ever afterward had his home with my parents. Their children were Samuel, William, Mary, Elizabeth, Sarah, Anna, Jane and Hannah.

In my father's family there were twelve children. Of that number I was the fourth child, and was born July 30, 1812.

I remained in the family and on the farm till I was twenty-four (24) years old. In my early life I was trained to the ways and manners, advantages and disadvantages, of a pioneer life. What education I received was in the old log schoolhouse. The subject of education was but little thought of in those days. The common freeschool system was not yet in operation-that system was developed after my school days were ended. The demands made on us then were altogether along other lines. "What shall we eat?" and “wherewithal shall we be clothed?" were problems that "readin, " "ritin" and "rithmetic" could not solve.

Notwithstanding that interest in the public school was meager, no one was so ignorant as not to be able to realize that a substance could be secured by a vigorous use of muscular power with the ax, hoe, spade, maul, wedge, sickle, scythe, shuttle, spinning wheel, etc. These simple implements afforded us a schooling that developed strong muscular constitutions. It was by these that houses were built, farms cleared, roads opened, etc. It was in this way that the foundation of our social fabric was laid and upon which the present generation is building to day, But my schooling was limited to the log house that was always provided with puncheon floor, long, split-log benches arranged against the wall, and the old fashioned fire place-, The books used then were Webster's Spelling book, the Testament, English Reader, and Pike's Arithmetic. All the teachers were, men, no women had yet assumed the office of teacher. The teachers were paid by subscription. No public money was yet appropriated in that way. Teachers were not required to pass an examination in order to teach school. It often happened that he abandoned his school from incompetency or want of support. This branch of civilization was thereafter largely neglected from the condition of things.

In those days we manufactured almost all our clothing and household fabrics from the raw material. It required considerable ingenuity, and skill to transform a fleece of wool into a flannel dress, a sheaf of flax into a tablecloth or a pair of pants, or the skin of an ox into a boot or shoe. Yet this was done in the families of all the pioneers.

I was born July 30, 1812, near Farmers' Station, Clinton County, Ohio. Mar3garet Hildebrant was born February 26, 1820, in Hunterton County, New Jersey. The memorable event of my life occurred on the 17th day of September, 1835, when Margaret Hildebrant and I were married by the Reverend John Hamrick.

The year following this event I bought a farm of 186 acres situated about two miles southeast of New Antioch and adjoining the farm of Levi Gregory. We removed to this farm where we remained one year and then sold out. Eighty-six acres were bought by Christopher Hildebrant, and the remainder by Paul H. and Richard Vandervort. The price received was about $12.00 per acre.

Our attention was now directed toward cheaper and better lands farther west. After some correspondence with friends already there, we finally fixed on Stephenson County, Illinois, as the point of our destination. So making, sale of personal assets, we fitted out a two-horse wagon with such articles as we would need and, about the tenth of September, A. D. 1838, we began our overland journey of 500 miles. Our line of march was through Harveysburg where we spent the first night; thence through Eaton, Richmond, Indianapolis, Crawfordsville, Attic on the Wabash, St Charles on Fox River, Rockford, and Freeport, county seat of Stephenson county, at which point we arrived in about fifteen days.

About twelve miles north of Freeport I bought a farm of 240 acres paying therefore @2.25 per acre, which price included the preemption fee. Here we began our toil for a livelihood, and here we remained for the next twelve years. The children that were born here were Ralph, Isaac Newton, William, Mary E. and Lydia. Columbus was about one year old when we landed here.

In the Winter Of '38 '39, 1 went, to a trading post on Lake Michigan, then, as now called Chicago-an Indian name meaning wild onion. The village had a population then of two thousand or less, fully one half of whom were Indians. The houses were mostly scattered along one street called Broadway. The street was almost impassable on account of the mud. I saw teams of oxen mire down in the street and the whole village seemed to stand in a slough.

My aspirations in visiting the post were to invest in building lots. First-choice unimproved lots could be purchased for $35.00 each.

I learned also by observation and inquiry the character of the commodities exchanged by bartering. Furs, Pelts and the carcasses of various wild animals, abounding everywhere, were exchanged for tea, coffee, sugar or whatever else was brought from a more civilized part of the country.

I consulted with both Indians and whites as to the future prospect of the village, and studied the lay of the land from my own observation. I could not entertain the idea that a great city would be founded there. One old Indian, who claimed to have a knowledge of the treacherous waters of the lake, said the water would rise at times and overflow the country for miles inland. This did not seem at all improbable, for it appeared to me that if the water should rise two feet it certainly would overflow the land. Even if the waters never overflowed, the low, marshy condition of the country forbade the building of a city. History has confirmed my opinion then formed, for in the course of time, the city and the government dredged the lake and the river and put the material in the city and the surrounding district, elevating the streets from ten to fifteen feet higher than they were in 1838. All the great business houses and dwellings were also elevated to correspond to the streets. Owning to the unfavorable conditions I did not invest in town lots.

In the winter of 1840 in company with one of my neighbors, we took a trip to Fort Winnebago, Wisconsin, about one hundred miles north. As it was a cold snowy winter we made the trip on a two-horse sled loaded with flour and oats. This point was in the midst of the great lumber region, and we brought our produce here to sell, This trip proved to be quite perilous, and we suffered much from the rigors of winter. The whole country seemed to be a desolate region. Now and then there was a settlement, even Madison, the capital of the state, was but then a small village. Our roadway was completely hidden from view by snow and it was impossible at times to follow the beaten track.

There were rivers and creeks to cross. There were no bridges over them, except where the ice was sufficiently strong to admit our passage.

On one occasion one of the teams broke through carrying sled flour and all under the water. We succeeded in getting the horses detached from the sled, and then by one vigorous effort they reached the bank. The sled was still in the stream upon which the flour was loaded, and all under water, but finally we landed it out upon the bank, but not before we got our clothes wet. It was so cold that the horses were white with frost before we could get the flour out upon the bank. We were compelled to abandon the flour for that night (for it was after night) and go to the nearest house and warm and dry out. It was four miles to the house. We renewed our journey next day and on our arrival at the Fort, we found to our great satisfaction that the flour was not seriously damaged. My brother-in-law Ralph Hildebrant was the driver of this team, and he proved himself master of the situation. We finally reached the Fort and sold our produce and made our return home avowing that we would not attempt such a trip again.

In the fall of 1841, in accompany with my family, we went back to Ohio to see our parents and friends. We went by the way of Bloomington in McLean County. At that time that city had not appeared, there was two or three houses with an unbroken prairie all round, except now and then, corn and wheat fields broke the monotony. There was not a fence in the whole country. The country abounded in numerous wild fowles and animals, wolves, deer, coyotes, prairie chickens, wild geese, ducks, brants, etc., abounded in great profusion as they did, generally throughout the state.

On our way back to the place of our nativity, we met innumerable trains of emigrants going to settle in the vast domains of Illinois, Iowa and Indiana. The tide of emigration from the middle and eastern states was wonderful and it seemed that those states would soon be depopulated.

We arrived at home and enjoyed a few weeks visit, and again renewed our journey homeward, which point reached about the 1st of, November. We continued to farm on as usual till the Fall of 1850 when we again visited Ohio. My family now numbered six children, and they all enjoyed their journey, and all arrived good health at the home of their grandparents.

There was nothing unusual to report on our trip, except at this time I crossed a railroad for the first time in my life. The first train of cars was seen at St. Charles, Kane county, Illinois. This was something wonderful to me then, as it, was to all emigrants and pioneers. That mode of travel has relegated the wagon to the past, and the flow of the emigrants' wagon to the West began to dwindle at the approach of the railroads, and now such means of travel have ceased, and like the sickle and spinning wheel, they served their time and are replaced by something greater.

While visiting our parents this time, an opportunity was given me to exchange my farm in Illinois for one here. This was consummated between me and Jesse Hildebrant. His farm was situated near Snow Hill, not far from my father's farm. I informed my brother-in-law whom I left in Illinois, and requested him to sell all of my personal assets left behind, and remit me the proceeds, which was accordingly done. This transaction closed out all of my business relations in Illinois.

We made arrangements to move on to our new purchase and continue the farm business here.

We remained on this farm four years, then sold out and bought another in Washington township, about two miles south of Cuba. We removed to this farm and continued our profession for sixteen years.

It was during the stormy days of the rebellion that we lived here. When the state was about to be invaded by the rebel army under Kirby Smith, whose forces had concentrated near Cincinnati, Gov. David Todd called out the militia of the state to report for duty in Cincinnati for its defense. The company in which I took a humble part reported there at once. The gathering was soon swelled to many thousands of troops from various parts of the state. All brought their rifles, if they were lucky enough to own one, and the formidable array the militia presented seems to have had the desired effect upon Smith's invading army, who withdrew his army from before the city. After an encampment of eight days in the city, we were discharged, fully realizing that we never "fought, bled nor died" in defense of the state. The militia ever afterward were known by the soubriquet of "Squirrel Hunters." Our discharge papers were embellished with the images of the squirrel and the hunter.

We sold the farm at the close of the sixteenth year and removed to the farm of Christopher Hildebrant, near New Vienna, my wife's father. We lived with his family, then consisting of himself and wife, while they lived, as age had incapacitated them from labor, but I, in the meantime, had bought another farm, adjoining the one I first bought some forty years before. We continued to live with father and mother Hildebrant, for some seven years.

It was at this place my wife died, leaving me with four children, Camelia, Charles, Eva L. and Alice.

On the 14th day of May, I was joined in marriage with Mrs. Martha E. Meeker, who was born near Point Pleasant, Clermont county, 0. on the 7th day Of June, 1835, She was a near neighbor to the family of General Grant, and was reared to womanhood there. Her father died when she was in childhood, and her mother subquently married David Hancock, father of the late Hon. John Hancock, one of Ohio's greatest educators, and at the time of his death State School Commissioner.

Martha E. Meeker has two sons living, (one died in infancy) by her former husband; one of them lives in Martinsville, 0., the other in Missouri. Some eighteen months after our marriage we removed to the farm mentioned elsewhere and remained there till the Fall of 1880, when I retired from active duty. I sold the farm to my son-in-law, Joel Johnson, and removed to the village of New Antioch, where I remained for a year or more.

I then bought a, small place of eleven acres near the village, and am there at the date of this writing, in my 81st year.

To-day I find my children all living, married and enjoying families of their own and I briefly name some of the important epochs of their lives.

Columbus C. Miller was born near Farmer's Station, Clinton county, Ohio, March 26, 1837. He was married to Lectra A. Kibbey, April 1, 1858. To these were horn ten children, nine of whom are living. He lives on a farm in Jefferson township near Westboro, He was a soldier of the War of the Rebellion and in Company D. of the 188th Regiment 0. V. 1.

Ralph was born in Stephenson county Ill., Nov. 29, 1838, was married to Ruth Carnahan, Jan. 26, 1861. Jan. 26, 1882, she died and was buried at Second Creek near Blanchester. They had two daughters, both living and married. Ralph was again married. to Matilda Ross, March 21, 1884, and was for eight years superintend of the Clinton County Infirmary. He now resides in Wilmington.

Isaac Newton Miller was born in Stephenson county, Ill., Oct. 19, 1840. He was a member of the 54th Regt. 0. V. L., and served throughout the war, and was in seventeen engagements of the war, Vicksburg, Pittsburg Landing, Corinth, Lookout Mountain, Atlanta, etc., were the chief conflicts in which he was engaged. He was married to Hannah Bennet of Clermont county. They have seven children, all living. They reside on a farm, in Warren county, near Fort Ancient.

William Miller was born in Stephenson county, Illinois, November 17, 1842. He was also a soilder in the War of the Rebellion, and was a member of the 79th Regiment, 0. V. L. His health failed and he was discharged from service in Kentucky after a years service. He married Rachel Moore on Dec. 25, 1863. They have six children all living. They live on a farm in Washington township, and are engaged chiefly in the Horticultural business.

Mary E. Miller was born in Stephenson county, Ill., May 2, 1845, was married to John M. Vandervort Jan 1, 1863. They have three children, all living. They reside on a farm near New Antioch, and are chiefly engaged in the nursery business.

Lydia C. Miller was born in Stephenson county, Ill., Aug. 14, 1848, was married to Joseph Hunter, Feb. 20, 1868. They have five children all living. They reside in Wilmington. Mr. Hunter is engaged in the buggy and carriage business as a salesman.

Camelia J. Miller was born near Snow Hill, 0., June 28, 1852, married Joel Johnson, 1870. They have ten children, all living, and they live on a farm about two miles southeast of New Antioch. Joel Johnson was a soilder of the War of the Rebellion, a member of the 79th Regiment 0. V. L.. He was in Sherman's march to the sea. He served three years.

Charles Miller was born near Cuba, Clinton county, Ohio, October 25, 1856. He was married to Marley Holmes on the 22nd day of May, 1880. They have one daughter. They live on a farm near New Vienna, Ohio.

Eva L. Miller was born near Cuba, January 12, 1861. She was married to Frederic Johnson on the 13th day of November, 1881. They live on a farm in Highland county, Ohio.

Alice Miller was born May 3, 1863, near Cuba, Ohio. She was married to William Doke December 25, 1884. They live on a farm near Martinsville, Ohio. They have no children.

This concludes the story of what I know concerning my parents and grand-parents.

They left no record so far as I know, of themselves or their ancestry. It was not the custom then, nor does it seem to be so to-day, that family records are given in detail to be filed away for the use and pleasure of decendants,

(additional laudatory text omitted)

Middle initial "N" was shown on his daughter Eva's death certificate, but there is no other document known that supports that. It is likely that the informant (Eva's daughter) was mistaken, presuming the N as she had an uncle with the name Isaac Newton Miller.

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Sources

• 1850 Census, Stephenson County, Illinois
• "Biographical Sketch of Isaac Miller," privately published, 1894.
• "Ohio, County Death Records, 1840-2001," database with images, FamilySearch (https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:F6V3-N6F : accessed 22 February 2016), Isaac Miller, 09 May 1897; citing Death, New Antioch, Green Township, Clinton, Ohio, United States, source ID Vol 3 p 112, County courthouses, Ohio; FHL microfilm 568,556.
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