Demarcus Lafayette Stafford! Both named for the Marquis de Lafayette post Revolutionary War. They were cousins and they made my research a nightmare. I was connected to both of them by DNA but did not know how. One came from the Maryland Branch of Staffords, the other from the Giles, Va. branch of Staffords. Ancestry and Stafford Society had my Great Grandfather coming from the Maryland Branch, but that Demarcus Stafford ended up living and dying in Graves County, Kentucky-miles away in west central Kentucky, Johnson Co. is eastern. My Great Grandfather was born in Paintsville, Johnson Co., Kentucky, and as I later found out, died in Ohio. When I visited Paintsville, the only John Stafford, cousin to Demarcus Lafayette of Giles, Virginia had a second wife, Nancy Ratliff, and two children, John who had to be my great grandfather, and daughter Mary Polly according to the family genealogy at the Johnson County Library. John and Mary Polly both connected to me through DNA. Not until I found on Ancestry that my great grandparents died in Ohio, and I ordered their death certificates, did I break my brick wall and find my great great grandmother, John Stafford's second wife, Sarah Sally Blevins. OH! sorry, strangest SURNAME, whoopsie. But outside of this, we are quite normal!