I put this list together some while ago after reading one of these threads:
Reasons why people do not like to use the word "died":
◾ It is considered insensitive and cold, and therefore impolite
◾ It reminds us bluntly of our own mortality
Then, too, Wikipedia gives a long list of less polite synonyms for death, including "croak", "count worms", and the classic from Monty Pythons "Dead parrot" sketch, "joined the choir invisible". And, of course, there are the past-tense verbs like "rests in peace" (also in the Python sketch).
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Things to consider:
◾ While death and dying are a natural part of life, they make many people feel uncomfortable or anxious.
◾ Other kinds of language may be easier to use and less anxiety-provoking.
Which is why some people say:
◾ She passed on
◾ She passed away
◾ She left us
◾ She's no longer with us
◾ We lost him
◾ Yet others may say "fell asleep on", or "has fallen asleep" (after all, for Christians, this comes straight from the Bible)
Those who are Christians may use terms such as :
◾ Went Home to Jesus
◾ Was Called Home
◾ Rests in the Arms of the Lord
◾ Has gone Home to Glory
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Then we have some common medical euphemisms, which include:
◾ Not doing very well
◾ Declining
◾ Failing to respond
◾ Might want to consider comfort care
◾ Seriously ill
◾ Isn't going to make it
◾ Treatment is futile
◾ Expired
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One other thing, which I brought up in another such thread as this is: yes, we are genealogists. Yes, we face the facts, and we report the facts.
BUT, in so doing, there is no reason at all that we cannot consider the thoughts and feelings of our READERS. Many of those will be the very people who find it difficult to use the words "death" and/or "dying".
It hurts nothing, and nobody, at all to be considerate of the feelings of others.
It hurts nothing, and nobody, if Wikitree autogenerates "passed away" instead of "died". It's also fewer letters for the "died" advocates to type, than for those who prefer "kicked the bucket", or "passed away".
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(And, Pip, I haven't forgotten what I said. One day, some profile I manage will have some euphemism that will make people laugh .. or at least smile.)
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