Gravestone of Sarah Miller Harris, 1728, Old Farm Hill Cemetery
"Behind a simple gravestone in the Old Farm Hill Cemetery hides a story of scandal among Middletown’s earliest settlers...
"...Thomas and Isabel Miller moved here from Rowley, Massachusetts about 1652. On May 6, 1666, the couple’s maid, Sarah Nettleton, gave birth to a son. The father was Thomas Miller. Thomas was about 56 years old; Sarah was 22.
"Within a few days of the birth, Thomas’s wife Isabel died. Thomas rapidly married Sarah Nettleton, but did not escape a brief imprisonment for his adultery. All things considered, the couple was fortunate to avoid the standard civil penalty of the day, which included the whipping of both or being “burnt on the Forehead with the letter A.”
"For his sin, Thomas Miller’s home church in Rowley excommunicated him. Finally, in 1674, the convicted adulterer made his only trip back to Massachusetts to express his repentance and was received back into church membership. Thomas and Sarah Miller had eight children together, the last born after Thomas’s death in 1680, when he was over 70 years old. Some years later, Sarah married John Harris and lived well into her eighties."
Birth Record
Until I can find a different source for her birth, this one will have to suffice.
Name Sarah Nettleton
Spouse Thomas Miller
Parents Samuel, Maria Mary Nettleton, Nettleton
Birth Place Branford, New Haven, CT
Birth Date 1645
Marriage Place Middletown, Middx, CT
Marriage Date 6 June 1666
Death Place Middletown, Middlesex, CT
Death Date 20 March 1727
Marriage Record, Connecticut, Town Marriage Records, pre-1870 (Barbour Collection)
Louis Effingham De Forest. "Moore and Allied Families; The Ancestry of William Henry Moore." The De Forest Publishing Company, New York, N. Y. (1938). p. 376 ff.see at archive.org
Edmund West, comp.. Family Data Collection, Sarah Nettleton Miller, Birth year: 1645; Birth city: Branford; Birth state: CT. Source Information
Edmund West, comp.. Family Data Collection - Individual Records [database on-line]. Provo, UT, USA: Ancestry.com Operations Inc, 2000. See: http://ancstry.me/2DNfVvd
Connecticut, Town Marriage Records, pre-1870 (Barbour Collection), Sarah Nettleton and Thomas Miller, 06, June 1666, Middletown, Connecticut. Ancestry.com. Connecticut, Town Marriage Records, pre-1870 (Barbour Collection) [database on-line]. Provo, UT, USA: Ancestry.com Operations Inc, 2006. Original data: White, Lorraine Cook, ed. The Barbour Collection of Connecticut Town Vital Records. Vol. 1-55. Baltimore, MD, USA: Genealogical Publishing Co., 1994-2002. See: http://ancstry.me/2DN95Wj.
"Connecticut Deaths and Burials, 1772-1934," database, FamilySearch (https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:F7KV-NQX : 3 December 2014), Sarah Nettleton in entry for Thomas Senior Miller, 14 Aug 1680; citing , reference item 1 p 54; FHL microfilm 1,513,707.
Ancestry.com. Connecticut Town Death Records, pre-1870 (Barbour Collection) [database on-line]. Record for Sarah Nettleton Miller Harris, died March 20, 1727. Provo, UT, USA: Ancestry.com Operations Inc, 2006. Original data: White, Lorraine Cook, ed. The Barbour Collection of Connecticut Town Vital Records. Vol. 1-55. Baltimore, MD, USA: Genealogical Publishing Co., 1994-2002. See: http://ancstry.me/2DkwdKL.
Find A Grave, database and images (https://www.findagrave.com : accessed 18 January 2018), memorial page for Sarah Nettleton Harris (1642–20 Mar 1728), Find A Grave Memorial no. 22302649, citing Old Farm Hill Cemetery, Middletown, Middlesex County, Connecticut, USA ; Maintained by AllanG (contributor 46922592). Find A Grave: Memorial #22302649 Retrieved Sarah Nettleton Harris.
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It may be possible to confirm family relationships with Sarah by comparing test results with other carriers of her mitochondrial DNA.
However, there are no known mtDNA test-takers in her direct maternal line.
It is likely that these autosomal DNA test-takers will share some percentage of DNA with Sarah:
Birthdate of "about 1642" in Branford is unlikely. Branford was not settled by English until 1644. If Sarah was really born in 1642, it would probably have been in Wethersfield where the Nettleton family lived before settling in Branford.
where it states that Thomas Miller married Sarah Nettleton on June 6, 1666 at Middletown, Conn. She was born about 1644 at Branford, Conn.; and died March 20, 1727 at Middletown.
I think Sarah Nettleton-143 and Sarah (Nettleton-21) Miller should be merged. Thank you.
http://www.rootsweb.ancestry.com/~ctsmfsd/MillerInDepth.pdf
where it states that Thomas Miller married Sarah Nettleton on June 6, 1666 at Middletown, Conn. She was born about 1644 at Branford, Conn.; and died March 20, 1727 at Middletown. I think Sarah Nettleton-143 and Sarah (Nettleton-21) Miller should be merged. Thank you.