When Mary Shirley was born in Culpeper, Virginia, in 1755, her father, James Shirley, was 20, and her mother, Judith Garriott, was 26. She married Tobias Wilhoit in 1771 in Culpeper County, and they had 15 children in 24 years, all born in Culpeper County.[1][2]
The family moved to Pleasant Hill, Mercer County, Kentucky about 1797. In 1808 she and Tobias moved with some of their children to Shakertown, Mercer County, Kentucky, where they became charter members of the Pleasant Hill Shaker Community. She died in 1844 in Mercer County.
The 1820 U S Census (https://search.ancestry.com/cgi-bin/sse.dll?indiv=1&db=1820usfedcenancestry&h=1187858) lists a Tobias Willhoit; however, the Census Place is Owen County, Kentucky. Owen County was created from among others, Franklin County. It is located north of Franklin County, away from Mercer County which is south of Franklin County.
From Shirley Association Genealogical Research Website (http://www.shirleyassociation.com/NewShirleySite/NonMembers/UnitedStates/Lineages/Jamesbranch21.html) "Mary Shirley born Apr 1, 1755 d. Jan 21, 1844 married in 1771 Tobias (Michael?) Wilhoite Oct 15, 1750 d. Feb 7, 1839. He served in the Revolution (pensioned). They moved to to Jefferson Co. KY now Bullitt Co. prior to 1795. In 1808 they moved with some of their children to "Shakertown, Mercer Co. KY where they became charter members of the Pleasant Hill Shaker Community and died. The birth and death dates are from the Shaker Society Records. They had 12 children."
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It may be possible to confirm family relationships with Mary by comparing test results with other carriers of her mitochondrial DNA.
However, there are no known mtDNA test-takers in her direct maternal line.
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Finished merge only retaining information from Shirley-940, there was a note about Mary's mother being too young, but I did not check or modify anything from Shirley-940, I will leave that to others.
The first alleged wife of Matthias Wilhoit is currently Mary Ballenger...but his wife Hannah is named in a deed by 1772. Meanwhile, the will of Mary Ballenger's father, Edward Ballenger, was later dated 9 Dec 1779, naming his daughter Mary Wilhoit and grandson Gabriel Wilhoit, who happened to be the eldest son of MICHAEL Wilheit (named in his will). Michael's wife is currently alleged to be Mary Shirley however, Mary Shirley is proved to be the wife of Matthias' son Tobias Wilhoit by his children applying for his Rev Vet pension in 1844. I've placed this information in the research notes on Edward Ballenger's profile, after seeing his estimated birth year was changed to fit Matthias' wife, who probably should be an Unknown given the documentation. It appears this issue has prior been pointed out on the profile of Mary Ballenger and Michael Wilheit by Sandra Vines but has not been addressed. If there are no primary sources for these marriages, the will of Ballenger is the best documentation we have, along with Tobias Wilhoit's Rev Vet pension file, which is transcribed here. https://revwarapps.org/r11542.pdf
Shirley-3492 and Shirley-940 do not represent the same person because: Will reject merge until sort surnames.....lots of Wilhoites living the same or close counties and many Mary,s.