Just got off the phone with Mary Cole - descendant of Robert Hazeltine - she cleared up several things about both families
OK Richard Swan's sister Joanna Swan was the wife of Robert Hazeltine - and that is how she pronounced it - she was in England and looked all this up when she was over there - has records but does not know quite where as she has moved recently BUT she told me about both families and see Richard Swan was only about ten years older than John and Robert Hazeltine but they were his nephews and they all came over from that area of Yorkshire (now Riding) following Ezekiel Rogers being expelled from the church in Rowley, England (16 Jan 1636) for speaking out against sports on Sundays - anyhow that is when he got all of the families together and formed a company and they got a ship and land set up - reverend Rogers had a brother over in the Boston/ Salem area already who helped him set up to get the land - they left Hull on the John of London and pulled in near Salem but the land deal was not completed yet so they stayed aboard ship to wait out the purchase so they could go build their own church - now John Swan was born so Richard had to go join the church in Boston and get the baby christened - about ten of the group joined and when the land deal went through and they went to build Rowley church and town they were all dismissed to go to that new church - Ann Spofford, Richard Swans wife was on the ship tending the children, the families sheep and cooking for the Swans and the Hazeltines so never joined the Boston church - so that is maybe why some sources thought she died in England - but no she lived and went to the new Rowley with the Hazeltines and her family and had more children and they lived right next door to the Hazeltines! She will send me more but I am quite confident she has the real story - I have no experience looking up things in England so I will add the places and times of the marriage when she sends it to me - Robert's children were all christened in one parish but the wife's parish is where they married - so I will get the specifics and bring them to this G2G