Question of the Week: What has researching your ancestors made you thankful for? [closed]

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With Thanksgiving in the U.S. coming up, we'd love to know what researching your ancestors has made you thankful for.

I think for me I'm always in awe and thankful for all the choices my ancestors made that led to the existence of me and the life I have. It's kind of amazing when you stop and think about it!

(Of course it's also made me thankful for WikiTree so I have a place to put all my research!)

How about you?

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in The Tree House by Eowyn Walker G2G Astronaut (2.4m points)
closed by Chris Whitten
I am thankful for finding family members that I never knew about through research and DNA.
Thank you. And the nice thing is that I was easily accepted after DNA and  I verified my father and I had the same blood type. Also nice to know they're from Italy.  No wonder I love pasta so much lol.
Thank you! It was truly a miracle
I am grateful for my ancestors as well as my immediate family. We may not have much going on as "famous" people as so many search for but we are family. Even though I have hit the wall wherever it has occurred, I am grateful for each and everyone of them. Wish I could spend a Thanksgiving with each family.
Women's Rights!
I for one am thoroughly AMAZED to be standing here, born etc in view of what little I have gleaned from the history of the USA and mortality rates and all the other stuff that happened.
I am thankful for all the genealogy history I've been learning and for the courage my ancestors had, especially after immigrating to America. I love history (though I was an English major in college but studied history, art history, music history, as well as literature) and it's been fun to learn about my ancestors.
I am thankful that I have ancestors who chose to come to Australia.
It has been an amazing experience to find out about my Great Grandparents. I didnt know much about them at all , three sets were UK born.  Im a New Zealander with parents and Grandparents who were busy establishing them selves in a new country so sadly the family history never got passed down.  I allways thought my maternal Great Grandmother was Welsh ??....well Great Grandma Keats is from Cornish stock thorough and through with a facinating seafaring linage, her father (my grt grt Grandfather a 'Master Mariner!!'.   Im throughly enjoying researching my family tree during 2020 Covid-19 lockdown. Its a facinating journey and Im learning so much. I feel like im getting a peek into the past.
Modern appliances! I have recently written a novel based on the lives of my sixth great-grandparents, which meant further research into their life and times. Just washing the clothing was an ordeal.

Fetching the 30 gallons of water from the creek or river, and then allowing it to settle (sentiment). Bringing that water to a boil over a hot fire, using lye-soap, stirring the water about with a bucking bat. Using a box-mangler (to squeeze out the water) after rinsing the clothing in clean water with some bluing thrown in (made with a Bluing agent: starch mixed with indigo) to help make the whites white again. Oi!

Then the items were laid across bushes until they dried. Ironing was a must (and now I understand why underwear was ironed, too) using a box-iron. Hot coals are loaded into the box portion of the iron and from there you pressed the wrinkles from the items. Talk about a hot mess. Mostly the laundry was only done during the warmer months. The first good day after winter often required a whole months' worth of clothing and other items be washed.

No thank you. I complain just having to fold the stuff from the dryer!

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Best answer
I am thankful that all of my ancestors chose to immigrate to New Zealand to get away from the overcrowded cities of the UK.  I am thankful that they didnt choose the bigger countries of USA, Canada and Australia.

Canada was too cold. Australia was too hot, USA had slaves. NZ was JUST RIGHT!!  LOL
by Robynne Lozier G2G Astronaut (1.2m points)
selected by Juliet Wills
Dare I point out the error in your post, it is Canada that is just right!!
I later moved to Canada!!  But I was born and grew up in New Zealand!!
Clearly, in your ancestry at least, children became smarter than their parents. (:
Please do get me started on all the kiwi jokes
+18 votes
Birth Control!
by Peter Geary G2G6 Mach 5 (52.6k points)
I am thankful for failure of birth control, 9months later I arrived!
+20 votes
Researching my ancestors and discovering how many poor women endured up to 25 years of near consistent pregnancy with multiple infant deaths and a high risk of dying during childbirth has made me thankful that I am a modern woman who isn't married and expected to produce like a farm animal, and have two happy, healthy children that I can spend quality time with! In the old days, the elder sons would be working, the elder daughters would be looking after the younger siblings - not a life I would want for my own children!
by Michelle Wilkes G2G6 Pilot (165k points)
tag onto that - thankful for contraception and modern medicine & surgery! I would have been lucky to have survived my first childbirth without cesarean (breech birth) but definitely would not have survived the second birth (very large baby that got stuck after 3 days of labour)
Usually there is a 2 year gap between children, at least when the mother exclusively breastfeeds. also, ther are other ways to prevent pregnancy besides contraception that works via aborting the baby. I will be thankful when other non-abortive methods arrive on the scene that will replace IUD's birthcontrol pills, Depo shots, etc.
Families were certainly a lot larger in the past!
Thank you for adding those important points about selflessness and women who chose to have large families. Often a new baby consoled a mother who had lost a previous child. Have a blessed day~
Amen, sister!
I agree with avoiding labeling mothers of many children. But until we had reliable birth control we usually had no choice except to remain a “spinster” in poverty. Large families were the norm, as were infant deaths. Only the strongest women survived, and for them to be our ancestors is a blessing.
The theory that only the strongest survived is generally reserved for Darwinists, Evolutionists, athiests and animals. With human compassion and generosity, many weak women managed to survive with help from their family, friends and neighbors.
My grandparents were born in the late 1800's, before the plethora of birth control choices that we have today. My grandmother would douche with a vinegar/water solution after sex to  prevent pregnancy. It worked pretty well. They had 3 children; my mother was the "mistake". That doesn't mean that everyone knew about such options. For farming families, a lot of children were helpful to work the farm. Cheaper than a hired hand, in those days. You also never knew how many of the children you had would survive.
Sandra, I am not an atheist and believe science and faith are complementary. God creates us with wonderful capacities for thinking as well as faith, goodness as well as evil, and the ability to change and adapt to challenges. We are created in God’s image. I will not insult another’s belief and hope for the same from others. We are, after all, connected in miraculous ways. I descended from preachers, healers, teachers, and scoundrels and am grateful for the lives of each one I’ve discovered.
AMEN, Sandra  One thing not mentioned is that the children were the "retirement plan" of the time. Life was rough, so having a larger number assured a better chance of having them around when you were to worn out to support your self.
My cousin and his wife had a son who arrived at 26 weeks in April.  He was breast fed.  Their daughter arrived in March the next year.  The calculated that their daughter was conceived about the day their son would have been born had he been full term.  They also believed that breastfeeding was good contraceptive.  The don't believe that any more.
Breastfeeding isn't a form of birth control. That's more of an old wives tale, than a reality.
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That my ancestors provided me with such a fascinating personal family history I can be proud of.  That my ancestors worked hard and left a legacy rich in American and European history where I make new discoveries, and will uncover many  new discoveries well into the future. That so many of my ancestors provided even in some small measure the establishment of our great Nation.
by James Stratman G2G6 Mach 9 (96.6k points)
+11 votes
I have been researching my Civil War ancestors and I am thankful they fought for what they believed in. I am amazed at the hardships they and their families had to endure.
by Michael Hall G2G2 (2.6k points)
+18 votes
Modern medicine. I always get a little sad when I come across a death certificate of a child of an ancestor who died really young. They  are just really hard to read.  I know we should be objective but....Yeah. This is what grandma meant by hard times, kids.

I am also thankful that many of my ancestors from both sides made the  sacrifice to move to America. It could not have been easy and the rigors they had to endure were definitely not for the faint of heart. Respect what they had to deal with and be thankful for their sacrifice.
by Chris Ferraiolo G2G6 Pilot (746k points)
+8 votes
Planes, first the ones my father flew in WW2 and then the one that brought my family to Oz!

Also computers and the internet that make research so much easier.
by Marion Poole G2G Astronaut (1.3m points)
+14 votes
For what I have.  No matter what my problems may be, or the difficulties I face, they don't hold a candle to what some of my "pioneering" forebears went through in their lives pre and post arrival in Australia.  (Although I do think I may have inherited grit, determination and stick-to-it-iveness from them.  (My 4Xgreat grandmother's daughter made the journey from England to Australia whilst heavily pregnant.  She had the baby on an Island in the Indian Ocean, well before making landfall in Sydney.  What courage and determination that must have taken!))
by Melanie Paul G2G6 Pilot (416k points)
+12 votes
It has given me more perspective of the history going on in the world and how it impacts people. Thus I am thankful for the hardships they went through to make my life better.
by Gurney Thompson G2G6 Pilot (439k points)
+17 votes
Researching my ancestors made me thankful to be alive. At 49, I had a massive headache that became an intracerebral hemorrhagic bleed that was nearly fatal. I was hospitalized for 30 days, and am paralyzed on the left side. I felt devastated, because I was a writer and teacher. So much of our lives changed.
But I learned to type one-handed, and found a letter from my great-aunt dated 1977, that told me about her parents - my great-grandparents. Then, I found a Civil War reunion photo, in my cedar chest, that I didn't even realize I had. It had my 2nd great grandfather in it, and that prompted me to research the 71st Ohio Volunteer Infantry.
I began to research more and realized, THIS was my new "calling" - how I can help others. I felt CONNECTED to my past and found cousins on both sides of my family.
I also learned that many of my own health problems were suffered by my ancestors - including brain hemorrhage.
I am THANKFUL. Without my ancestors, we would not be here.
by Sheri Taylor G2G6 Mach 2 (26.0k points)
Congratulations on your determination and courage.  Many people would have given up and spent the rest of their lives in a nursing home environment and you are a live, vibrant, contributing citizen that someone down the line will be thankful for.  Kudos to you!
I, too, have suffered what was termed a ruptured brain aneurysm. I am glad to learn that you survived and that you have found a new 'purpose' for your life. I was a mere fifty-four years old when it struck me out-of-the-blue. It is a familial thing. I got it from my mother's side of the family, as it turns out.

Bless you and good luck.
+15 votes
I am thankfull for modern health care and contraception,

For social security so I didn't have to marry again out of neccessity after my husbands death.

For womens emancipation and rights so I can work, vote and decide about my own life.

For (almost) free education so people can live up to their potential.

For modern communication  so I can stay in contact with people who live too far away to see regularly.
by Eef van Hout G2G6 Pilot (183k points)
I am also thankful for modern medicine. Since I descend from the seventh child of my sixth great-grandparents, contraceptive may have prevented my being here. :O

I have tried to imagine how their lives would have been altered, if at all, had my sixth great-grandmother survived the complications of birthing her tenth child. We don't really know just what those complications were, but the dreaded Childbed fever took many a young wife/mother from her family.

Had she lived, she would have ended up being Tennessee's very first First Lady.  Fate is always fair, you know?
+11 votes
Birth control and modern medicine are both tied for first place! Seeing so many births and so many deaths so young (and for many preventable diseases) is heartbreaking.

Second place would be technological innovations that have improved accessibility to research.
by Patricia Ferdig G2G6 Mach 3 (36.0k points)
Patricia Ferdig, Think about all your ancestors who would not have been here had there been birth control and the ones born had died- you might not be here if that had been the case. God has a purpose and a reason for all who are born and who live.
Oh, I'm not religious at all, so I don't think ancestors' suffering at watching children die was part of a 'greater plan' or 'greater good' by an omnipotent.

And honestly, birth control has been around thousands of years, we just now have modern medicine to help regulate and keep us safe. No more crocodile dung pessaries for us!
+11 votes
The answers so far have all been great! I'm thankful for my ancestors' toughness and survival that allowed me to eventually be born. I'm thankful for the technology, health care, and infrastructure that those who came before designed, built and taxed themselves for. I'm thankful that I have a vote and a voice and the time to research. I'm thankful for all the volunteers who care for those on the margins of society, put their lives on the line for refugees, for social justice, freedom of the press, education for the poor and minorities, justice here and abroad. I'm thankful that there are volunteers here on Wikitree that comb through profiles and make them better, answer questions, and in general are Good People.

Thank you all.
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Modern medicine. So many of my ancestors had children who died in infancy or early childhood from diseases that today we have under control.  If I had been born fifty years earlier, my siblings would have died due to Rh incompatibility (indeed, I sometimes wonder if that's the reason for the seven year gap between my great-aunt and my grandmother). A hundred and fifty years earlier, and I'd have been left motherless at age four and possibly orphaned by seven.

Freedom and opportunity. My ancestors came to North America to make a better life for themselves and their children, and I have a life that's better than they could've dreamed. I have an education and a job I can  support my family on, neither of which would have been available to my many-times-great-grandmothers. I have money and credit in my own name. If my husband died before our kids were grown, it would be possible for me to keep my family going, without having to marry the first man who offered.

The people who helped. One ancestor was cared for by a great-aunt after her mother's death in childbirth; another was cared for by a foster family. Many successful ancestors loaned or gave money to their struggling children, grandchildren, siblings, nieces and nephews. I am here in part because ancestors were helped when they were in need, until they were able to fend for themselves again.
by Sharon Casteel G2G6 Pilot (159k points)
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I'm thankful that the infant and child mortality rate has been brought under control.  Seeing all those newborns, infants and children who died so young is heartbreaking.
by Raymond Miller G2G2 (3.0k points)
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I'm thankful for having an ancestor who fought in the English 54th Regiment of Foot during the American Revolutionary War and other ancestors who fought on the side of America, made history more interesting. Finding cousins and connections has also been rewarding.
by Frank Gill G2G Astronaut (2.5m points)
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computers and online resources! and Wikitree, of course!

by Living Prickett G2G6 Mach 9 (94.2k points)
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Like many others, I am thankful for modern medicine. Without it my MIL would not be here and neither would any of my children due to complications with child birth. We can also be reasonably assured that our kids will outlive us. So many of my ancestors lost children in the first year of life.

I'm also thankful for the seemingly extraordinary events that lead to my current life. My mother's grandparents fled Poland (then Prussia) during WWI to one part of the U.S., my father's grandparents moved to another, and my wife's grandparents moved from Europe to Chicago and New York. Yet through various circumstances, our families now live within a half hour of each other and we get to see them all the time.
by Paul Halvorsen G2G Crew (910 points)
That's quite a story! How lovely that you have your extended family nearby. I wish my family all lived closer, like yours.
+10 votes
I'm thankful for the friendships I've made along my journey to discover my ancestors - some of them are distant cousins I never knew I had, and others have become dear friends.
by M Brook G2G Crew (730 points)
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I have to smile whenever I discover an ancestor that was an elder, deacon or pastor of a church.  Knowing of the hardships that they had to endure as they left their homeland for a life in the western hemisphere.  I admire their strong faith in God and stand in awe of the legacy they left for their descendants!  My 9th Great Grandfather was Elder William Brewster who was the first of a long list of men and women of faith that came to America.
by David Schaeffer G2G6 (7.9k points)

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