Yes this is hard, but I really enjoy the search. I always wanted to be a detective I I'd some searching and found out all the marriages for Eddie, Arron, Simmie, Elrader. Are not my grandma because of the birth year on most. I found it on the divorce records. Now as far as my uncle and I know my grandma was mostly in Stockton , CA. And Sacramento, CA. But I did find the record with Alvis Swader for Annulment in Humboldt County, CA 1955 newspaper artical. Which is kind of unny because that's where I live now. And places in Butte county where Alvis lived is where I moved to from Sacramento before here. I find it kind of ironic that I have always wanted to find out about my grandma because she was like my mother to me I feel that is where my roots come from. And I have lived most of the places that I find out she's been. Thanks this is awesome to be able to go over this with someone else. Richelle