There is no birth record for an Amelia in 1864-ish in any county. There is a marriage record for Amelia Ann, daughter of Thomas. She married in 1883 in Belfast.[1]
↑Marriage, Marriage of CHARLES RAYMOND and AMELIA ARBUTHNOT - Belfast (Superintendent Registrar's District), IrishGenealogy.ie, Department of Tourism, Culture, Arts, Gaeltacht, Sports and Media, Group Registration ID 2221250, Date: 04 January 1883 (accessed on 30 Sep 2023 from irishgenealogy.ie). view record details (free), view register page (free)
Charles Raymond (Age 25), Labourer, Father: Horatio Raymond, Soldier
Amelia Ann Arbuthnot (Age 23), Winder, Father: Thomas Arbuthnot, Farmer
Witnesses: Samuel Whiteside and Eliza A Sinclair