there is a great deal of discussion in the family about the possibility her death was a suicide.
Buried Quaker Cemetery, Skaneateles, NY
From a letter to Ann Frederking from Pat Ingersoll - "Phebe was the baby. Trained as a nurse at Clifton Springs. Married Earle Grady - a charming Irishman. Took her own life for reasons unknown except to my father [Leslie] who never disclosed the facts he learned from Grady at the time of the funeral"
Frank Bockes said that Ralph Emmons, a lawyer, found out the true facts.
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