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WikiTree profile: Pip Sheppard
closed with the note: Great to hear from everyone. See you next weekend!
in The Tree House by Pip Sheppard G2G Astronaut (2.7m points)
closed by Pip Sheppard

Welcome to another Weekend Chat, my fellow members of the Chat family! And greetings from a wet and cold Cathey’s Creek. OK, not as wet and cold as many of you, but temps here are expected to drop in the next few days to the teens (Fahrenheit), if the weather forecast holds. No snow, though. I know that some of you are slogging through several feet of that stuff.

On the Home Front: Busy, busy with the church renovation, trying to get it done in anticipation of getting our certificate of occupancy. The scheduled moving date is December 29th. I went over there nearly every day this week. The stuccoing is finally completed so we now have our outside lights up. The last of the interior doors came in. Those need painting before hardware is installed. Most of our AV equipment was installed. Target date for our first service there: New Year’s Day 2023!

The Christmas presents we ordered have been slow to arrive. I think all of mine are here, but my wife has been waiting on some for a few weeks now. Hope they get her before the kids arrive (our daughter and our son-in-law whose Puerto Rican ancestry I’ve had so much fun with).

In my Patristics class, we have finally finished up with several pre-200 AD church fathers. Tonight, we’ll cover several more (the books we are using have only selections, not full texts). St. Irenaeus will be the biggie coming up.

A dear 86-year-old lady at church has been ill. I called her Monday morning, and her breathing was so labored that I called her doctor asking them to send paramedics to her home. She has been at the hospital since, and I saw her yesterday. This is the lady I have mentioned before that I call my “church mom.” Funny how a Southern boy like me and a Bronx raised New Yorker like her get along so well.

She has been diagnosed with small cell lung cancer, but she says she is going to fight it. I don’t think she’ll make it, and it would be a huge loss for me. Interestingly, she and her parents were visiting relatives in Poland in 1939 when they got word from family to LEAVE immediately. They barely got out. Germany invaded Poland while they were in transit back to London.

On the Genealogy Front: It’s been a slow week for me, except for my greeting and ranger duties. Really, I have done almost no work on my family except for trying to finish up the biography of my great-grandmother, Lundy Beaty Neal.

My wife lost her last cousin on her dad’s side of the family last Monday. She (my wife) is the very last person on that side remaining.

I just looked back at my old Chat messages and realized that last November 22 was my third anniversary of hosting the Chat for this wonderful community. I cannot believe it has been that long! Just so you know, this is one of the things that I really look forward to each week. It is a privilege to host, but the best part is hearing from all of you each week. It does feel like a family here. I hope you enjoy yakking with each other as much as I do.

Have a most blessed weekend!

Enjoy the Chat!

Hi Pip...first Happy Third Anniversary. It's been a wonderful relationship as far as I am concerned. Now that I think on it, I joined the chat shortly after you became emcee. I like the fact that all answers are Best Answers.

I am sorry about the death in your wife's family. I alluded to the point that my brother his wife and I are the 'elders' now that our mum, dad and other relatives have died. And losing loved ones during the holidays seem to exacerbate the loss.

It doesn't sound good for your Church Mom. Small cell lung cancer is quite vigorous. My step brother, Dale, died of it in 1983, a year after my dad died. Dale was all of 39 years old. I will hold Church Mom in my intentions and meditations. I would anyway given her history fleeing Poland when she did!

Meanwhile, we are getting Tucson all prepared for your arrival. I wonder if the King's Pipers will be able to arrive on time to play Scotland the Brave as you deplane. HUGS!

Hey. You get along with plenty of other northerners, man. Why should geography decide friendships? That's how wars get started. I hope she told you some amazing stories. Sorry about her cancer diagnosis. =( But, you being there means the most to her, I am sure! Keep it up.

We were already praying for healing for Mrs. Pip, but we'll also be praying for comfort for her. (Didn't her siblings and cousins have any kids, or did you mean that she's the last of her generation?)

Greg, my wife had only two first cousins on her dad's side. Only had no kids, the other had two. She still has two first cousins on her mom's side of the family.
MY 49ers have clinched their division. Yippppeeee!!!

Maybe Eddie gets his Superbowl birfday weekend in February.

Pleeeeez pleeeeez need a 49ers Superbowl !!!

Meanwhile, we had a week of NO SUNSHINE. And snowing Friday night. Heavy sigh for a blue sky.

Eddie, the snow is a sign that you should never pull for a team from California if you never lived near there. You were born in the South, so you have to pull for a Southern team. devil

Yep, Chris, it took me some time to learn how to not be so insular. Just look at our cool friendship!
Pippen, you might want to watch this if you want to know more about St. Irenaeus. It features the Bishop of the Diocese of Winona-Rochester.

https://youtu.be/db_30gftdOo

Condolences to you and your wife on the loss of your cousin. And I will pray for the church lady too.
To Eddie and Pip, I say a "Compromise" is in order-------Go Chiefs!!!!
Pip, Dude !!!!

The DeBartolo- York family that owns the 49ers are here in my town. The team comes to YSU every summer. When I was a kid, I met Joe Montana. He shook my hand.

49ers have always been my guys.

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Good morning Pip and the weekend chatters!

Weather:

  • Currently, it is 43ºF and sunny.

Buch Name Study:

  • initiated the merge of several duplicate profiles which have since been completed

WikiTree Challenge:

  • As a result of this week's WikiTree challenge, an 8th cousin here on WikiTree has acknowledged our connection/relationship.
2023 January Connect-a-Thon:
  • Registration has begun, register here.
by Tommy Buch G2G Astronaut (1.9m points)
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Good morning, Tommy! We are just a little colder here, 33°F, but the skies are sunny for a change!

Great work on those merges! I get notices ever so often by some keen-eyed WikiTreer to approve a merge. I happily do so.
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My Secret Santa wish came early! Thanks to Vic Watt for helping me with the profile of my wife's great-great-grandmother. I'm now able to go back two more generations!

That's the most significant work this week and that was just in the last day.

Other than that, the usual suspects. CC7 work. Random bits here and there.
by Eric Weddington G2G6 Pilot (520k points)
edited by Eric Weddington
Oh, Eric! That is so cool, two more generations back. Kudos to Vic and congrats on your new ancestors!
Congrats on your Santa Wish results Eric! Getting two more generations back is amazing.
Thank you, Pip & Liza!
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Thank You for hosting the Chat Pip.

Musings from Northeast Ohio on Americas North Coast.

Weather, Sunny for now but cold, near freezing, and rain as well as snow forecast for later.

Home Front, Not going to pick up the van. It has a problem that they are going to try and fix this weekend.

Genealogy, Still plugging away sourcing some profiles I adopted. This week I worked on some random profiles but mostly started on a family name of Zahuranec. Check out the first one I did on that surname, https://www.wikitree.com/wiki/Zahuranec-2 .

by Dale Byers G2G Astronaut (1.7m points)

Ohm, wow! Slovakian ancestry. I almost wish I had something more exotic in my ancestry, Dale. Mine's all Brit, at least mote recently, say in the last 300 years.

So, what are you going to do with a van that is still having problems? I'm figuring that you are just looking for another project to add to your list. surpriselaugh

Did your radio club decided what to do with all the new equipment they just received?

Pip, To answer your first comment, the Slovakian ancestry is not related to me by blood.

Second question, Not sure about the van, yet.

And as for the radio equipment, we are having a sort meeting tomorrow to see just what is there and decide what to do with it.
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¡Buenos días a todos from Eagle, Wisconsin! It is 8am and 25F (-3.9C) with an expected high of 29F (-1.7C) with 80% humidity and snow flurries. I so dislike cold weather.

 My flight from Phoenix to Milwaukee was uneventful…packed with travelers, but uneventful. We left the gate on time; however, we sat on the runway for about ½ hour making our arrival ½ hour delayed. My brother sat in the cell pone lot wasting gas to keep warm. It was a joy to see him, and he took me to my drop off/pick up location at a Starbuck’s in Mukwonago. It was the first time he was in a Starbuck’s ever so I treated him to a cup of hot cocoa. We chatted while waiting for my niece to collect me and take me to my sister’s home in Eagle.

 My sister, Bonny held her ‘ornament party’ on Wednesday evening. This has been an annual holiday event for some 20 years for her. The ornament theme this year was Southwest and the extra gift was ‘gnome.’ I purchased an ornament made by Dine (a Navajo craft person). It was made from a gourd with desert southwest native designs and horse hair burned into the gourd. The lucky winner was my sister’s neighbor.

I got more information about my son-in-law, Curtis’ health status at the party. Apparently, last October when they did his open heart surgery, the cardiologist said this surgery would hold well for eight to nine years! Bonny told me that the cardiologist was gobsmacked to see how badly the defect had re-occurred in less than a year. I mentioned last week that they want Curtis to lose about 30 pounds before they schedule him for surgery; however, the drugs he is on for PSTD actually add weight. I will be spending Saturday with my daughter and family. She has been teaching all this week. In true Milwaukee style, we will all be at a bowling alley this Saturday night. I still don’t know how they figure out those scores.

It has been rather a sad time for all of us. This time last year our mum was still alive and we were visiting her at the care center. I am not saying that I would still like her to be alive given that her Alzheimer’s was so advanced she did not know us, nor could she do any self-care. It is just difficult for any family having to experience the anniversary of a death around the holidays. Neverthless, we are all meeting at my brother’s home on Sunday to enjoy family time and find out what is going on with siblings, nieces, nephews and cousins. My brother, his wife and I are now ‘the elders,’ although most people tell my brother and me that we will never grow up or old.

 Bonny and I started watching season 5 of The Crown. This season has very fine performers, but we still like Claire Foy and Max Smith from the first two seasons the best. We only got through the first episode because we spent Tuesday night and last night watching the Netflix Harry and Meaghan special. Based on the ratings, I know that Bonny and I aren’t the only ones watching! She told me that the ratings have already exceded ‘Dahmer.’ I think I would have preferred hearing that Harry and Meaghan beat The Crown ratings rather than a show about a sick serial killer. She then said that they did beat the ratings for The Crown as well. What I am happy about is that Netflix is bringing back Emily in Paris with Lily Collins. That light, upbeat, cross-generational, multi-cultural trans-Atlantic show with great fashion got me through the pandemic, as well as last New Year’s Eve!

As to WikiTree, I have been adding more Crockett’s to the tree while in Wisconsin. It turns out that we are distant cousins. I have also been finding through FamilySearch that some of the Crockett spouses were one parent away from being connected so I have been linking where I can. One connection is to a Griffin with ten children so I will likely work on them as I close my visit to Milwaukee.

Pip, thank you as ever for wrangling the chatterers. Only 24 more days until you present yourself in Tucson! I am so looking forward to your visit! You do know, though, that your visit coincides with the first Thon of 2023, right? We should do a Netflix show akin to Emily in Paris, except we will call it Highlanders in the Desert. We can stage fun experiences at San Xavier, take over cooking fry bread and tacos, and such. In lieu of French fashion, you and Mike can wear kilts and I will wear my Malcolm plaid with kilt pin. To all the other chatterers, have a happy, healthy and productive weekend! 

by Carol Baldwin G2G Astronaut (1.2m points)
How are you liking Matt Smith in that show? He was amazing as the 11th Doctor.

He was amazing as Dr. Who and that is how I discovered him! He is the first Prince Philip in the first two episodes of The Crown and I thought he was terrific. Claire foy played the young Elizabeth and she was really great as well. Now Imelda Staunton is the older Elizabeth. I think she is a talented actress, but my sister doesn't like her because "she was so nasty in Harry Potter." I told Bonny that was a sign of a good actress.

Carol, my dear, Christmas can be hard for folks who lost loved ones close to that date. Mom: Dec 14th two years ago; Stepdad: December 20th last year. But really, loss of any kind are difficult to deal with during the holidays. I go for the good memories as best I can.

I hope your trip to the Arctic will rejuvenate you. How wonderful to be with so many relatives. I love the whole idea of an ornament party. You picked a great one!

This is be our first Christmas all alone, kinda. Kids will leave on the 23rd, and the other kids are working and spending time with the in-laws this year. Actually, we are kinda relieved. No cooking or clean up. We'll light a fire in the fireplace, drink coffee and open our presents under no schedule.

Yep, I'll miss the thon, first one in years. But, just think. I'll be in a MUCH WARMER PLACE! (Not hell devil, but TUCSON!yes)

Indeed. The guy who played Filch does a great job as the First Doctor. Actors are only as good as their roles and if you hate a character, they did their job. Look at Kurt Russel’s son, Wyatt. He played John Walker aka Us Agent in the MCU. He’s a good guy but plays a very unlikeable person.
I warned you about the cold! How many layers did you bring?
Not enough!!!
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That last storm was a doozy!  I went East for some waterfowl hunting or as I say to “Clean up America's golf courses one goose at a time.”  I got caught in that blizzard and a day trip ended three days later as the road closures caught up with me.  One funny story was that I tried to start the truck and I had nothing. I spent most of the day day working with insurance roadside assistance until mid afternoon when they told me that they could not help me and I was on my own.  So I googled mechanics near me.  One phone call and twenty minutes later I had two young adults from a local repair shop show up.  They took out a hammer and hit the engine and the truck started right up.  They actually tapped the starter which unfroze it but I did not know that trick.  The issue I had was that the truck was parked outside and the wind blew the snow through the grill and it stacked up on top of the engine under the hood.  It just got too cold for the starter to function until that tap from the hammer.

On genealogy, I continue to work on the CC7 and cemeteries. I am making progress but things are slowing down on my searches now for where I can go without entering people who are living. I am still working on it but this project may be closing down and then I will move on to something else inside Wikitree.
by Gurney Thompson G2G6 Pilot (458k points)
I have used a hammer many times to start an engine.
A hammer. This is unbelievable. Why have I never heard of this before? Could have saved me so much time and effort. However, I have to admit that I have thought of using a hammer when I've locked my keys in my car.
I'm pretty good at not using a hammer to break in to a car.
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Hello Pip and all the other chatters!

All is as well as can be in my part of the world. We are currently in the midst of receiving up to 25 cm (10“) of snow. The snowfall started last night and is supposed to end tomorrow morning. With all this snow comes milder temperatures - it will be about 0°C (32°F) for at least the next day or so. I personally like having snow. In the past 7 years we have had 3 green Christmases.

On the genealogy front, I have been getting a bit of work done. My main trees are on Ancestry so I research there then add the information to WikiTree. I manage a couple branches that are not yet connected to the main tree so I have been researching them further in order to make connections. Plus yesterday and today I have been answering a G2G post written in French where a gentleman asked for help. That conversation is still ongoing.

Have a great week and stay safe everyone!
by Liza Gervais G2G6 Pilot (393k points)

My wife is not jealous, Liza, but I am. I'd be happy with a 10" snow here, just as long as another 10" didn't follow behind. surprise I have never had a white Christmas (cue Bing Crosby here), but there's an outside chance we'll get some next weekend.

Hey, Liza!

Currently, (Saturday at 6 PM ET), snow continues to fall albeit very, very lightly.  Our current total is 18" or 20", depending on which side of the house we measure.

Candyce, the snow has stopped here and we got an official total of 38 cm (15”). We had a couple of inches on the lawn before this storm started. I am so happy that it finally feels like winter and that Christmas is coming. My son works at a grocery store and he said it was very busy today. Many stores were probably quite busy.
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Good morning everyone! And, as always, thanks so much for hosting the chat, Pip!

Here in north central Texas, we are finally experiencing some sustained winter temps. It was about 30F this morning and will only warm up to upper 40's or 50's this afternoon. Next week we are to have some temps in the teens but no snow which is good as our snow is usually preceded by a layer of ice. If that happens, it will come later - January or February.

On the Genealogy front, I was finally able to visit the Dallas Library on Wednesday. I had not been since early June so it was an enjoyable day. I did find a few tidbits to add to the tree. I have not done a lot the past couple of weeks but I have worked on missing parents and spouses that has increased my CC7 a bit - that is kind of fun to see and also fills some gaps with those missing family members.

I guess  a potential big genealogy event for me is that my Christmas present from my husband is that I have contacted a recommended researcher in England to research my Butter(s) line there and in Scotland. I was able to furnish quite a bit of information but have not been able to break through the hurdles to find more. The researcher will begin in mid-January on my project. Fingers crossed!

I am now off to pick up some gift cards that will finish my Christmas shopping. I do not plan to be out and about in the traffic after today!!

Have a good week!
by Virginia Fields G2G Astronaut (1.2m points)
Good morning, my fellow Greeter! I really hope your hire finds you loads of information. I have often thought about hiring someone to a bit of work for me across the Pond.  I'm crossing my fingers for you. Keep us posted!!
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Good morning from a frosty Lakewood, Washington! Snow is predicted for Sunday and Tuesday and many in Western Washington cannot safely drive in our usual heavy wet stuff we get. Therefore, the rush is on to get the holiday shopping wrapped up soon!

As some of you might recall, six months ago I found out that the man on my birth certificate and who raised me with my mother for my first 7 years, was not my biological father. Quite a shock at age 72!

I have exciting news. Someone I cannot name through a group I cannot yet name, is confident my biological father has been identified. This was done using DNA and chromosome sorting or some such process I do not understand. Confirmation is not going to happen this year but I am hoping for good news in 2023.

Since I have spent so much time researching these families, I fear for the first time in over 2 years I will not reach 1000 contributions. I also know I can’t possibly source the 500+ unsourced I aim to do each month. Oh well…

May you all enjoy your weekend!

by Nancy Thomas G2G6 Pilot (208k points)
Congratulations Nancy, to be near finding out who your biological father is! Good luck!
Nancy, people (like me) have no idea how to drive in the South with snow on the roads. Personally, I'd just as soon stay home. Easier, since I am retired.

Keep us posted on the bio-father research! I, too, am way behind on my usual contributions for the month. It's not like I don't have tons to do. my CC7 is only creeping up.
Nancy, I live in Ottawa, Ontario, Canada. We have snow for at least 3-4 months of the year yet there are still people here who do not know how to drive in the snow. Some don’t even put winter tires on their cars. And the first snowfall always results in lots of accidents (fender benders, cars in a ditch just outside of the city, city articulated buses stuck, etc).
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Howdy folks! Greetings from chilly central Oklahoma!

The weather has been typical: temps in the 30s-50s(F), a bit windy, and rain here and there. They're expecting the Siberian Express to come through here on 21st thru Christmas, so below zero wind chills are possible. We'll see...

I'd like to announce the arrival of my brand new grandbaby, Harper Sue!! She arrived last night at 2345 CST. She's almost a month early because of some issues my daughter had, but she has a great set of lungs and only required oxygen after the C section. She weighed 5.06 lb and was 19.75 in. long. Mom is doing fine, but tired. She was at 4-5 cm all day yesterday and made no progress, so C Section it was. She shares a birthday with my brother in law, and he is fired up about that! Needless to say Grammy Brook and myself are beyond excited!!

Genealogy wise, I have been working on making my profiles better, and spending 12 hours in a hospital room makes for great profile time. I signed up for my first Connect-a-Thon (first "thon" of any kind) and am a proud member of the Tree Nuts! I'm sure it will be fun!

Well, I'm a bit tired since we didn't get home till after 0200, so I'll sign off.

Thanks Pip for being the host with the most, and I hope everyone has an outstanding weekend!! (Thanks, Pip, for covering my Ranger shifts! I owe you cousin!)

Till next time.....

Harper's Grandpa

by John Vaskie G2G6 Pilot (218k points)

Thanks Chris! She will be spoiled like my folks did with her momma. Rotten!! wink

And thus the circle of life continues.

Warm congratulations to you and your family John! heart

Thank you, Maria!!
Congrats to you John!

We are in that in between stage, no family of the right age to have children.

My parents had 7 children;

14 grandchildren, my 2 kids and my 12 nieces and nephews who now range in age from 43 to 15,      

5 great grandchildren the oldest is 20, the youngest is 10, 4 of those great grand children are my grandkids

3 of my nieces and nephews are the same age as 2 of my grandkids.

Out of my 12 nieces and nephews, only 1 has a child, the older ones for various reasons are unlikely to have kids, the younger ones now age 10-15 might.

So no babies on the horizon.
John, I can tell just how thrilled you are' so much so I can feel it in myself! With a birthday near Christmas Harper will have two reason for December to hurry up.

Your first thon! John, you'll be hooked after this. I certainly was. Unfortunately, this will be the first in several years that I'll miss. The Tree Nuts are fortunate to have you.
Thanks M! Harper is my mom's second great grandkid. Ma always likes to say, "There's room for more!"
Thanks Pip! I am in love all over again! Best present ever!!!
Congratulations! Happy to hear that everyone is doing well!

She is a good weight for a month early! My youngest was 3-1/2 weeks early and weighted 7lbs 6 oz.
Thanks Liza! Hopefully they get to go home tomorrow!
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Hails and horns, Wikipeeps!

Christmas is coming and I have a special Christmas blog for you all to check out. It's about traditions on Christmas eve! Read it here: https://allroadhaverhill.blogspot.com/2022/12/52-ancestors-week-50-traditions.html

Send the blog to my cousins who were at the house on many Christmas Eves and I may have challenged them to a round of Mario Kart. =) Why not?

Oh and let's see if anyone remembers the console wars of the '90s. That was a fun time.

On the genealogy front, I've been checking out what profiles I will add onto for the Connect a Thon. I have an idea of what I'll do. They might go with a theme of "friends and family". Like trees of my parents' friends. We'll see. I might try that or a few other profiles I've been meaning to put up for my One Place studies.

In the mean time, Azure posted a newsletter about the Italy Project. Check it out here: https://www.wikitree.com/g2g/1507086/december-2022-italy-project-newsletter

The Italy Project's Leadership team (TM) all contributed something to this. I had fun checking out Atlas Obscura for some "Fun Facts". Expect more because Italy has more than just the Romans hanging around.

I hope everyone has a great weekend! Enjoy the blog!!
by Chris Ferraiolo G2G6 Pilot (769k points)
I enjoy your blogs, Chris! Great job!
Thanks, John! =D
Chris:

Atari?
Sega Genesis rules!

@ Candyce: Yep. We had an Atari. It was retired by the time the Genesis came around in 1988/1989. Before that my brother and I would play NES games at a friend of ours. We never actually owned a NES. But, once I got the Wii, I was able to download the classic games. And several classics were on the Legend of Zelda collection. 

@Paul: Yes, indeed. Of course you might remember how Genesis does what Nintendon't. Talk about an aggressive ad campaign. Of course now I have a Genesis collection on the Nintendo Switch. Sega has gone thirty party and most of the classic games are on Nintendo Virtual console or on collections.

I do miss the X-Men, Spidey and Avengers games, though.

Chris, I would have been one of those non-squid lovers, so I'd have been chowing down on the shrimp AND the trifle. laugh I love the Christmas traditions your family had. I'd have been no good at the gaming, though.

Azure's newsletter for the Italy Project was just fabulous!

Did you send that Christmas card to the commune? cheeky

We'd have had plenty of gnocchi for you as well, Pip. =D

And don't worry. I'd teach you how to play some of the classic games.

Wow. Imagine a Wikitreers gaming stream. Interesting....

Yeah, I did send the card to the commune. =P
Haha! I hope they appreciate it! They deserve it, too!
Great blog post about your Christmas Eve traditions Chris!

My family didn’t do anything special on Christmas Eve so we used to spend it at my FIL’s place (5hr drive from us). It had tamed a bit by the time I joined the family but the day was spent finishing wrapping, helping around the house then taking a nap. We had a bowl of homemade soup with crackers for supper either before or after the nap. Around 11-11:30 pm everyone got dressed up, even our kids once they came along, and went to midnight mass. Then it was back to the house for a glass of wine as the food was brought out (turkey, stuffing, veggies, mashed potatoes, ci-pâte, cranberries, gravy, etc). Yes, we had a full meal at 2 am and everyone was stuffed. Dessert was usually a bûche de Noël (Christmas log). Finally presents were opened. Everyone stayed up talking until finally going to bed around 5-6 am or even later. Then, lucky us, we had to get up later to be at my MIL’s by mid-afternoon Christmas day for more presents and another Christmas dinner (turkey or wild rabbit ). It was so exhausting!
@Pip: Oh, they do, I am sure. =D

@ Liza: Thanks! That does sound exhausting. The drive alone sounds pretty horrendous. But, hey? Staying up till dawn? I used to be able to do that....

Not really. Latest I ever willingly stayed up was 3 AM.
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Good morning...

I looked for a long time at the photo of Grandpa John with grandbaby Harper Sue.

I had no idea snow was forecast for Sunday and Tuesday here in western Washington. I have to read the Weekend Chat to get the news.

Here in Everett, Snohomish County, it's around 30 degrees F. and there has been heavy frost. A beautiful orange dawn today.

It's an Ember Day, so I am making poke salad. Our meat man threw in some ahi tuna pieces as I told him we are eating less meat. They defrost easily. I like poke salad, so I am experimenting with dressing. My daughter even tried it. Son, not so much. In this batch I am cutting down on the sesame oil and will add more green onions and sesame seeds. I kept wasabi paste on the side, fortunately, since I found it was too strong.

The fabric pieces are coming off the designing wall and getting sewn into a blue, white & yellow strip quilt for a small boy. It has Star Trek and Thomas the Tank Engine in it.

A Wikitreer expressed interest in working with me on the Brownsville, Oregon, One Place Study.

I am cleaning up my Frames and finding several who went west and were not heard from back in Ohio. I connected a Thomas Clark & family, who were about 8 degrees from Mark Cuban.

The local magazine that I wrote for has gone under. Just too expensive to keep going. It was a scramble getting a 500-word article in by the 15th of the month, plus finding a photo to go with it. But I will miss seeing the articles in print.  

I will let you all know how it goes regarding the weather. Try and stay warm. Warm thoughts like the ones I referenced at the top of the post when I was looking at the photo are the best.
by Margaret Summitt G2G6 Pilot (321k points)
Wasabi would have been too strong for me, too, Margaret, though I know people who think it has to be in everything. Just can't do it.

Sorry to hear about the magazine. This is not unusual, but I wonder if the editors would be willing to go online with it. Lots of magazines have done that, some of which I really loved getting in my hands each month.

Stay warm!
Margaret, I am a good 1.5 hours to the south of you. Our South Sound weather is often very different than yours thanks to the wonderful Puget Sound convergence zone that you are in or border on. Hope the snow is minimal no matter where we live in Western Washington - to much to do next week!
+21 votes

Hi from southern Ontario,

Chez moi/at home: what's happening here? Forecast for yesterday and today was; Snow, Snow, Snow! Freezing rain, Freezing rain, Freezing rain! School buses were cancelled yesterday. We did have both snow and freezing rain yesterday but nowhere near the amount that was forecast and today’s storm has been canceled. But it is very foggy I can see across the road, but any further away is invisible just lost in fog. I’m not going to drive anywhere today. 

And then there are/were the squirrels, I finally got tired of the squirrels who have been making nest after nest in the climbing hydrangea on my garage wall, chewing through the branches, weaving them into a nest and then deciding to move locations and doing the same thing 6 feet away. So, we live trapped 11 squirrels and relocated them 5km away, on the other side of a 6 lane highway and a large wetland. I'm having visions of the squirrels sharing alien abduction stories!

The Horticultural Society held our Christmas meeting on Tuesday night, it’s mostly a social event, unlike other meetings we don’t have a speaker. I spent some time sharing house renovation stories with another member. She tested positive for Covid on Wednesday morning, I am now waiting to see what happens or not between now and next week. I am fully vaccinated so I’m hopeful all will be well. 

Genealogy: I ended up down a deep rabbit hole this week. I was adding a wife for a 2C2R of my DH, this is for the Alton Cemetery project. Her last name is Bradford, that was all I knew, then discovered her mother’s maiden name was Mary Ellen Hunter, the daughter of Samuel Hunter, who may or may not be the son or grandson of David Hunter the immigrant ancestor of at least 45 descendants in the immediate area. 

There are several Samuel Hunters, this one was born about 1830 in Ireland, the date doesn’t make sense as he would be 15 or more years younger than his possible siblings and too old to be a sibling of David Hunter’s grandchildren. 

I’m beginning to think he may have been a nephew or great nephew of David Hunter’s who went with the family to Canada because his parents were dead or perhaps he could be a previously unknown son of David Hunter’s oldest son. Or maybe he arrived later than the rest of the family. I can’t find him on the 1851/52 census. He is on the 1861 census but by then he was married and not living in the same household as other family members plus he died before 1901 when the date of immigration was recorded on the census. 

What else: Yesterday I removed all the books from 4 floor to ceiling bookcases in our library/living room and sorted them all by genre. Decided that many of the books that had been given to me or that I inherited from my mother belonged in read it, not going to reread it category could be donated and then reshelved almost all of the rest, there’s still about 100 that I have yet to make a decision about. 

We have our 17 year old special needs granddaughter for the weekend, and tree decorating, I may be very busy doing laundry. She started to wet the bed again after a new student joined her class, a few weeks ago, he’s 16, severely autistic and physically violent. The teachers are wearing protective equipment. 

by M Ross G2G6 Pilot (737k points)
Hi M, sounds like your reno is coming along well given that you are organizing books. Spending time in Wisconsin with snow, snow, snow, blowing winds, snow and freezing rain remind me of why I love Tucson so much!

My daughter gets special needs kids in her 8th grade class. It is not a picnic for anyone, teachers, students, and families of the special needs children and those in the classroom. I hope your granddaughter can 'readjust' soon with the love and care you are providing for her.
I wouldn't be driving in that either, M. Good choice.

My squirrel problems is trying to keep them away from the seeds I put out on the back porch railing for our chickadees and titmice. We are constantly running them off.

I see you are running into that old genealogist problem, multiple people with the same name. There should have been a law!

I feel for you on making decisions about books. It's not like I need all those books, but I have this thing about keeping books way past the time I'd read or use them again.
My plan is to research his siblings, they aren't identified on any census, but a local museum has multitudes of  newspaper announcements from about 1850 to 2000.

The birth, marriage, death and social events have names of his parents and siblings.

His parents died before 1850 so other than being mentioned in announcements of events in their children's lives there isn't much about them.

Many people are described as his siblings so then I hope to find them on censuses especially the 1901 and maybe 1911 because that will tell me when the siblings arrived in Canada, and that should confirm when the whole family arrived.

He married in Canada in 1860 I have the record issued by the church, but unfortunately not the official record that would have his parents names on it and their birthplaces.

His wife was I think his second cousin. All the various Hunter families lived within a few miles of each other on land that would have been opened for settlement in the 1830s/1840s.
Carol, the reno has not progressed much, all the many holes in the drywall will be fixed on Monday and Tuesday, then nothing happening until the beginning of January.

When all the plastering, sanding etc of the repaired drywall will happen. After that the new flooring, new kitchen, painting,  keeping my fingers crossed it will all be done by the end of January.

The bookcases I emptied and organised are in the library/living room which is not part of the reno.

The bookcases start to overflow about every 18 months, then they have to be purged. Somethings that have gone are multiple duplicated copies of Elizabethan fiction, some my mum's and some my daughter's. I read them once and knew it would not happen again.
+22 votes

Greetings, Wikitree Family!

As always, thanks to Pip for hosting Weekend Chat. 
December is my peak crafting season so I have been minimally present here on Wikitree- just enough to reach my goal of 100 contributions.

I have done some crafting in soap, and vinyl transfers on T shirts, but have mainly been indulging my lifelong fascination with paper, learning new skills used in modifying and designing SVG files used by plotting machines (Cricut, Silhouette, Brother and other brands). The framed inserts in these cards are machine embroidery.

I plan to do more genealogy research over the winter and have touched base with the librarian at the Quincy Historical Society towards that end.

Happy holidays!

by Anonymous Reed G2G6 Pilot (181k points)
edited by Anonymous Reed
Those crafts are beautiful! Well done! My Cricut machine baffles me, but my sister says that she will come up and teach me how to use it - one day. In the meantime, I will admire your creations.
Hi Anon! Thank you so much for the lovely Holiday visuals!
Candyce, If you want to meet up for a crafting session sometime, that could possibly be arranged. I could combine that with research. I don't have a Cricut...yet but would love an invitation to go hands on. I've heard that it is one of the most user friendly brands of the bunch. I have a Brother Scan n Cut sdx125 and use both Brother Canvas Workspace and Silhouette Studio (the software for the Cameo machines). All the software is very similar but each has particular strengths. The basic/universal file type is .svg but each brand takes in .svg files and produces a proprietary file type. With the version I have of Silhouette Studio, I can produce .svg files that I could share (by email etc.) with people who have other brands of machines. Just keep trying! It's taken me a few years of experimentation to learn how to deal with the software, mats and blade settings. It is only now that my learning curve is taking off and I am considering looking into possibility of making cards or projects to sell.
Carol, thanks for the encouragement!

Your crafting is beautiful, A! I have little skill in that area, but I had a chance to learn when I was younger and passed that up for walking in the woods in our very rural neighborhood.

+20 votes

Currently, it's 4˚ C and cloudy in Fort Erie. The forecast calls for a mixture of rain and snow showers, with a low of -1˚ C tonight, so we're getting off easy compared to most of the continent. (Lake Erie does a pretty good job of moderating our winter weather, and many winter storms seem to take Lake Ontario as a Left Turn sign, because more often than not, when the Greater Toronto Area is getting freezing rain or a dump of snow, we're just getting wet. It almost feels like home.)

After a couple of years on hiatus due to all the social distancing due to COVID-19, my annual cold is back with a vengeance. My go-to medicine for a cold that's really nasty is Buckley's Mixture. (My theory is that if I'm sick enough that the cold is worse than taking Buckley's, then I'm sick enough that I really need it.) However, I'm facing something of a quandary: the Buckley's we have in the house has a best before date of 2019, which is three years ago. That's a little extreme, even for me. So I asked the light of my life and the delight of my eyes, "If Buckley's goes bad, how would you know?"

And all the talk of Christmas reminds me that I probably should have posted this a couple of months ago, to give people time to order and get it in time for the day, but I suspect that Pip might enjoy this. (Maybe next year.)

Keep calm and merry on

It's too bad CafePress doesn't have sweatshirts or hoodies in Christmas red or green, because a T-shirt isn't particularly seasonal. (Except in the tropics or the Southern Hemisphere.)

On the genealogy front, I'm almost finished tallying Cannons listed on Wikipedia. I think I have less than a dozen to go.

by Greg Slade G2G6 Pilot (680k points)
Well, look at you, Greg, all red and green and not at all Grinchy!

"If Buckley's goes bad, how would you know?" I had to laugh out loud. Hope you feel better soon, Greg. Will keep you and your nurse-wife (aren't all wives nurses?) in my prayers.

I still have one of your tee shirts designs!

Since the Grinch is green, and I'm using green and red, you could say that I'm only half Grinchy.

I've got to check and sere if I have a kilt with green AND red (or red AND green) for Christmas Eve service!

Send the recipe for Buckley's Mixture. It might be better than my cocktails to shorten the cold symptoms.

You don't make it, you buy it. And they actually used to use "It tastes awful. And it works." as their advertising slogan. (Don't believe me? Check here.) Hence the joke about "If Buckley's goes bad, how would you know?"

Hmmm... I see that the founder of Buckley's doesn't have a WikiTree profile. Something needs to be done about that.

I'll have to go to Manitoba to get some. 

Huh. They used to sell it in the U.S. Apparently, though, not any more. Sorry.

Not in the U.S????

That's okay. I have Theraflu.

+22 votes
Happy weekend everyone from New Hampshire where it is snowing like the Dickens (yep! Like the snow in a Charles Dickens' novel!).  It is said that the side of the state where I reside will get about 12 to 18 inches today.  Chris F. lives nearer to the seacoast, so the snow there will be less - if any.

Pip, I had a Church Mom, too.  Her passing seemed impossible, but it seemed almost holy when it happened. I miss her still to this very day.

I'm checking in for just a few moments in between the wrapping of gifts and the eating of cookies.  I'll be back later.
by Candyce Fulford G2G6 Pilot (119k points)
Candyce! Where are the cookies for the rest of us chatterers?! We hold down the chat fort while you chow down cookies? Bah...humbug...(not really, I do hope you are having a great day).
Cookies will be presented to whoever comes to help wrap presents.
I'm on my way, Save some cookies for me!
+23 votes

On this day:

1775: The British novelist Jane Austen is born

1838: The Battle of Blood River is fought

1972: In the Mozambican town of Wiriyamu, Portuguese colonists committed a massacre.

by Jelena Eckstädt G2G Astronaut (1.5m points)
Well, there were a couple of new ones here to choose from, so I'd  better read both the Battle of Blood River AND the Wiriamu massacre. Thanks, Professor!
+21 votes

Good evening from freezy Germany

where temperature hardly ever went over the freezing point. A good reason to stay inside and do some "genealogy organization", while the personal side this week was rather quiet.

On Monday I started to dive in into the German Location Categories. Or better said in that what is called "German Location Categories." It's a huge mess. But since in many projects location categories are promoted, we Germans have to deal with that too, no matter if we like it or not. Better we create the cats than anybody else who has no clue about Germany and the regions at all.

For that I first had to learn how to create a category at all. Thanks to Flo I know that now and was able to start a cleanup. I take the personal profiles that are in the high level categories and try to bring them down in their fitting category, which can go down to village level. It's more than enough work though. There are thousands of profiles on the regions level that should go downwards in the hierarchy. It's still sometimes enough work to find out which district is the correct one etc. So it's a slow work. I already said on Discord: "If you look for me in the coming months on WikiTree, you'll find me in the German Categories." But ignoring them is no option at all.

Other than that... I hardly did anything. One day I worked a bit on my watchlist to exploit sources and create more profiles, just to orphan them afterwards. On the other days I was a Champion to ignore my watchlist and nearly everything on WikiTree outside of the categories.

Stay safe, enjoy the weekend and don't stress yourself too much with the holidays coming.

by Jelena Eckstädt G2G Astronaut (1.5m points)
I quit allowing the holidays to stress me out. While others go crazy, I just chill.
Jelena, I have long known NOT to mess with locations myself (in Germany) and to get more expert help in that area. I would just be lost what with all those changing borders and merges of territories through marriage, etc.
+20 votes
Aloha from Lincoln, Nebraska

As usual, busy week at work. Hundreds of miles driven to fix machinery. So other than doing it in crappy December weather. Not a bad week. I am getting tired of averaging 50hrs.

Last week, the pestilence that struck my home continued and finally left. This weekend I might finally be able to record my vocals for one of my songs. It's called Night Marchers. It's based on a Hawaiian legend. If I finish it, I will let you all know.

As for Genealogy stuff has been going well. I've been adding several extended branches to the giant tree here.

My relatives on Hawai'i Island are doing well. None of them were impacted in anyway by the eruption of Mauna Loa. It seems Pele has left Mauna Loa and let the giant return to it's slumber. She also seems to have left Kilauea  and allowed it to take a nap after 40yrs of continous activity.
by Paul Kreutz G2G6 Pilot (129k points)
So, Paul, I'm guessing they haven't put the new guy on the road yet, huh?
Not yet. When he does hit the road. He gets to ride with me for a couple months.

You've been on the road for so long by yourself, do you think you can handle the company? cheeky

I gotta be honest. I’m not sure. Also, I would have to let him drive once in a while. I hate other people’s driving. Including my wife’s.
+18 votes
Hi Folks,

Greetings from snowy Braman Corners and thank you, Pip, for hosting.  We're having our first big snow of the season.  It's pretty warm, just at 32 deg F/0C, so the snow is wet and heavy.  It's a bit of a pain to shovel.  I'm learning to take small bites with the shovel to reduce the toll on my deteriorated joints. We're glad of our retirement, so we don't have to brave the roads and traffic and can wait the storm out, at home.

It was our turn, today, to deal with a computer disaster.  My dearly beloved's old Windows 7 machine succumbed to some online scam.  Fortunately, we had bought a spare when mine crashed a while back.  She was reluctant to jump into a new operating system and navigate the unfamiliar, but after her embrace of a new phone, she's feeling more advenurous.

Genealogically, I've slipped back into the familiar territory of Schenectady families.  It's a relief to revisit known places and people, and to broaden the web.

Thank you all for the connections.
by Mark Weinheimer G2G Astronaut (1.2m points)
Mark, I woke up to 36“F this morning and it is rising slowly. We're expected to be in the low 20s around Christmas with an outside chance of snow.

Windows 7?!? There are still some of those around?
+18 votes

Virtual Vacation!

Today's Virtual Vacation was inspired by a conversation on local public radio about Cliff Richard, a very popular 1960s English singer, one of his most popular songs was called Summer Holiday. I remember listening to it over and over again on the radio. 

Today we are visiting Shaldon on the south coast of Devon. My family spent several probably 3 or 4 summer holidays in Shaldon, I think from 1960-1964. My dad took all of these photos, they were part of the 14,000 slides I inherited after his death. 

The village is on the south side of the river Teign estuary across from the bigger town of Teignmouth. These fishing boats are pulled up on the shingle beach directly in front of houses, you can see how high the doors are so the water stays out when the tide is in. The river is tidal but does not have the big changes in water level that many beach areas do when the tide is in. 

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We stayed in what would be called today a holiday let, or vacation rental, we had the whole house, and usually took our holidays with some family friends who had children of similar age to my younger siblings. This provided 4 adults who could take charge of children at the beach, while others made meals, or did the washing and cleaning. 

The house on the right side of this building was where we stayed, the blue and white Bedford van was ours. The friends had the left side of the house. 

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This is the view from the front of the house, with the van, you can see how close we were to the beach. Just around the corner on the right was a bakery, we had fresh whole wheat bread for breakfast every day. And the shop sold fresh honey still in the honeycomb, it went very well with bread that was still warm. 

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This is part of the beach.

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When we had holidays in Shaldon there were 2 ways of getting across the river, the first was to drive a short distance up the river and drive across, but if I remember correctly it was a toll bridge and then you had to find somewhere to park. The other way to get across the river was the ferry directly from the beach, it took all of about 10 minutes. 

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The river had lots of fish, I'm not sure what type of fish but they were big, probably about 2 feet long, and I assume were salt water fish. Every day when the tide was turning, fishermen would walk out into the river with one large net that they held between them, then they would come together in a circle and walk back to the beach with a net full of fish. It was very exciting to watch the net being dragged in with the fish wiggling wildly in the net. 

I had a new swim suit one year and I thought it was the most beautiful I had ever seen, I never got it wet! 

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This is the village lawn bowling green.

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One day we drove to another beach not very far away, this beach was quite flat and the tide was out, so the water was a long way from the top of the beach. My dad decided to drive the van out about 200 feet or more onto the beach, of course it got stuck in the wet sand, after a tow truck pulled it out and my mum calmed down we had a very nice afternoon.

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by M Ross G2G6 Pilot (737k points)
M, thank you for showing us your dads wonderful photos with your lovely memories! I really enjoyed it.
What wonderful memories you have, M, especially with all the photos to remind you of fun times. I love that old van! A classic (now).

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