I'm hoping everything on the WikiTree profile was public information and, besides, you were posting in a private group, so I don't see how you did anything wrong at all. I have a private family group like that and share genealogical info--that's precisely one of the reasons why I set up the group. Of course, I guess since I'm the admin of it, that may make a difference. But, we wish each other happy birthday and happy anniversary and just yesterday one of the cousins posted about the birth of a grandchild--info about living people. I'm sorry you were made to feel you did something wrong, but I personally feel you did not.