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When Mary (Cole) Luther was born [1] on July 8, 1689, in Swansea, Massachusetts, her father, John, was 29, and her mother, Susanna, was 27. She married Caleb Luther on March 18, 1713, in her hometown. [2] They had seven children in 15 years. She died shortly before 23 December 1786, when a death announcement for Mary Cole of Warren, Rhode Island "in the 99th year of her age" ran in the Providence Gazette.
Death Date:
The death date of July 20, 1759, previously attributed to Mary (Cole) Luther in her profile is incorrect due to a misidentification. That date actually belongs to a different Mary Cole, who had parents named John and Susannah (Gray) Cole. She was buried at Plympton, and her gravestone indicates her death on July 20, 1759. The confusion stems from two women named Mary Cole in different locations and the identical names of their parents, leading to the incorrect assignment of the death date to one of them. For example, some family trees refer to specific sources for her death, such as Mayflower Births and Deaths, vol. 1, page 317, citing a transcription of Mary (Cole) Wright's gravestone from Mayflower Descendant, vol. 11, page 191. Hence, it is likely that Mary (Cole) Luther passed away on a different date.
Moreover, numerous family trees incorrectly state that her husband passed away on April 8, 1748. The Swansea town book records the death of a Caleb Luther, specifically Caleb Luther Jr., on this date. The record details the death of Caleb Luther Jr., son of Caleb Luther and Mary, who passed away by drowning in a small brook on April 8, 1748, at the age of 25.[3] Again, the similarity in names has resulted in the incorrect belief in family trees that Mary's husband and son died on the same date, leading to confusion.
Now that the incorrect death dates for Mary and Caleb have been corrected, when did they actually die? Here is the context as to when they died: They lived in Swansea into the 1750s. After part of Swansea was split off and given to Rhode Island to create the new town of Warren in 1747, Caleb and Mary Luther were involved in buying and selling land there until the 1760s. For further details on their activities, you can explore the summary of land and property records below.
Furthermore, Caleb Luther appears just above Frederick Luther at Warren in the 1774 census of Rhode Island. Given their proximity as neighbors, it is reasonable to assume a familial relationship between Caleb and Frederick Luther, possibly father and son. Since their son named Caleb passed away in 1748, it suggests that Caleb, the father, might have still been alive in 1774. Caleb's absence in the 1777 Military Census, which included men over 60, suggests that he may have passed away between the 1774 and 1777 censuses. Once more, Caleb Luther is absent from the 1782 Rhode Island census, while a household led by Mary Luther, aged over 55, is recorded. She was alive in 1782, so she must have died sometime after 1782.
It is highly likely that the death reported in the newspaper clip linked to this profile is that of Mary. The Providence Gazette reported the death of Mrs. Mary Luther on December 23, 1786, at Warren, in the 99th year of her age. Although several other newspapers published this notice in the following weeks, none specified the exact date of her death.
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Categories: Kickemuit Cemetery, Warren, Rhode Island
https://archive.org/details/vitalrecordsofrh07arno/page/66/mode/2up
is clearly for this Mary. So I will change the bio and death date to correspond.
edited by Barry Smith
edited by Lydia Vierson
edited by Barry Smith
edited by Lydia Vierson
https://www.wikitree.com/wiki/Cole-8730
The GSMD source just refers to the Mayflower Descendant, vol.11, page 191, which is giving cemetery transcriptions. The 20 July 1759 date is on the gravestone of Mary Wright. She was born Mary Cole. That gravestone also isn't at Warren -- it's at Plympton.
https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:3Q9M-CSKM-YSH8-F?i=166&cat=105143
in which Caleb Luther and his wife Mary of Swanzey formally announced their receipt of their legacy from their honored father John Cole. They both signed it in 1754.
Caleb and Mary were transacting land at Warren until the late 1760s, including a sale joint with Frederick and Joanna (their son).
edited by Barry Smith
Both my mom, brother and I joined GSMD in past couple of years and the proofs for this generation on approved applications read "Caleb DR VR Swansea, MA 1:171; Mary BR VR Swansea Bk A : 14; MR VR Swansea Bk B:171; John Cole will 22 Sep1742 Warren, RI named daughter Mary Luther WB 1:35 Caleb named in Will of father Samuel II, [FindAGrave]: Kickemuit Cem., RI"
I think edit are fine as suggested are fine if sourced. New applicants for GSMD might need to submit additional information to prove lineage with updated info. Thanks for your dedication and help Barry!
edited by Lydia Vierson
I just got approved for GSMD last month. So we both know it's pretty hard work to get in now, harder than it used to be. I don't know if GSMD filters out info from older applications that may be more suspect. The reference to Swansea VR 1:171 is their marriage record. On page 214 is the death record for Caleb Luther on 8 April 1848, but it clearly says he was Caleb Jr., who drowned, aged 25.