Mary Stanton was born about 1684 in Province of Pennsylvania.
Mary (33) married (1) Unknown Dodd (1717) in 1718. Mary (33) married (1) Robert Tyler Jr. (abt.1670-1738) 10 June 1718 in Queen Anne Parish, Anne Arundel, Maryland. On 10 June 1718 "Mr. Robt. Tyler & Madm. Mary Dodd were married per Mr. Jacob Henderson.[1]
Mary (55) married (2) Jacob Henderson (55) (born about 1684 in England) on 2 Nov 1740 in All Hallows Parish, Anne Arundel.
Mary died before 18 Feb 1762 in Prince George's County, Province of Maryland, aged about 77.
J. D. Warfield in 1908 started a myth that has been recopied and perpetuated on many trees since that time. He stated:
"In 1696, Colonel Henry Ridgely married Mary (Stanton) Duvall, widow of Mareen Duvall, the Huguenot, and with her administered on Duvall's estate." [2]
"After the death of Col. Ridgely, in 1710... Mrs. Mary Ridgely next appears as the wife of Rev. Jacob Henderson, the English rector sent over to visit the churches of the province. Mr. and Mrs. Henderson left an enduring monument to their memory by the erection, in 1735, of Holy Trinity Chapel. Having endowed the same, they left it as a memorial to the public, and by act of the General Assembly, it was converted into a "chapel of Ease." There is a marble slab in the vestibule, stating the fact of its erection at the cost of Mr. and Mrs. Henderson. There are also a number of memorial windows erected in it to the Duvalls, Mullikins, Bowies and others. The will of Mrs. Henderson, at Upper Marlborough, shows that she had a brother in Philadelphia, and that her maiden name was Mary Stanton..." [3]
Warfield was more of an historian than a genealogist, and those statements are incorrect, as shown by records being more accessible today. His error comes from the fact that Jacob Henderson had two wives named Mary, which Warfield combined into one person.
Mary, maiden name unknown, was born about 1670 and married:
1. Mareen Duvall before 1694 when he wrote his will
2. Henry Ridgely from 1694 to 1696
3. Jacob Henderson as his first wife
She died on 19 January 1735 in Queen Anne Parish, Prince George's County, Maryland.
She is not Mary Stanton as listed by Warfield. Mary Stanton married:
1. Mr. Dodd
2. in 1718 to Robert Tyler
3. in 1740 to Jacob Henderson as his second wife
Mary Stanton died 1761-1762 in Prince George's County when her will was written and probated.
Because Jacob Henderson married both women named Mary, Warfield confused his second wife Mary (nee Stanton) with his first wife Mary, maiden name unknown and had Mary Stanton incorrectly as the person who married Mareen Duvall and Henry Ridgely.
The account of Mareen Duvall was filed on 9 February 1696 by "Henry Ridgley who intermarryed with Mary the Execux. of Mareen Duvall."[4] As Mareen Duvall named his wife Mary as his executrix, that document provides proof of her first two marriages.
Proof of Mary's marriage to Jacob Henderson is found a deed on 28 February 1733 when Jacob Henderson of Prince George's County, Clark [Clerk] & Mary his wife lately called Mary Ridgeley the Widow of Coll. Henry Ridgley late of Prince George's County deceased sold a tract to Benjamin Jacob.[5]
The marriage of "Revd. Jacob Henderson & Mrs. Mary Tyler" was on 2 November 1740 in All Hallows Parish, Anne Arundel County.[6]
An abstract of Mary Henderson's will is"
Liber 31, folio 512
2 Oct 1761
HENDERSON, MARY, widow of The Rivirend Mr. Jacob Henderson, late of Prince George's Co. decd.
To my daus.-in-law Mary Whitehead & Pricilla Wickham, each L 25 sterl.
To my dau.-in-law Susannah Lamar, L 25 & my clothes, which clothes she is to dispose of among her daughter.
To Mary Magruder, wife of Jeremiah Magruder, L 35 sterl. & 1 suit of my clothes.
To Ruth Hall, wife of Isaac Hall, 1 suit of my clothes.
To susannah Gray, wife of John Gray, L 5 sterl.
To John Duvall & Jeremiah Magruder, each L 10 sterl.
To Margarett Hutton, wife of Richard Hutton, L 5.
To Robert Tyler, s. o. my son-in-law Robert Tylor decd., John Pi[n]dle s. o. Philip Pi[n]dle, & Elizabeth Pi[n]dle, d. o. Philip Pi[n]dle, 1 sh. sterl. apiece.
To repairing the vault at the chapel, I leave L 20 sterl.
To Daniel Stanton, s. o. my bro. Daniel Stanton (my sd. nephew lately living in Philadelphia), the residue of my e.
Extr: John Duvall.
Witn: James Beck, Marsh Mareen Duval, Ann Baldwin.
17 Feb. 1762, sworn to by Beck & Duval[7]
Mary Henderson's full will is also available.[8] The above marriage and will prove that it is Jacob Henderson's second wife, the widow Tyler, who was Mary Stanton.
Mary Stanton's second husband was Robert Tyler. On 10 June 1718 "Mr. Robt. Tyler & Madm. Mary Dodd were married per Mr, Jacob Henderson" [9] [her future husband 22 years later.] Robert Tyler wrote his will on 29 December 1735 in Prince George's County and it was proved on 24 August 1738. Among others, he named his wide Mary.[10]
Robert Tyler married Mary Dodd Stanton as his second wife. There were no children from this marriage. She later married Rev. Jacob Henderson Source: Juanita Kellerman 1973 Garnett Ks.
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Categories: Anne Arundel County, Province of Maryland | Prince George's County, Province of Maryland | Stanton Name Study | Henderson Name Study | Tyler Name Study
This Mary: married 1. Mareen Duvall married 2. Henry Ridgely married 3 Jacob Henderson as his first wife. She died in 1735.
For Mary Stanton She married 1. Mr. Dodd She married 2. in 1718 to Robert Tyler She married 3. in 1740 to Jacob Henderson as his second wife She died 1761-1762 in Prince George's County when her will was written and probated.
An abstract of her will which shows that Mary Stanton is the wife of Jacob Henderson who died inn 1762 and named her brother Daniel Stanton. HENDERSON, MARY, Prince George's Co., widow of Rev. Jacob Henderson. 2 Oct, 1761 18 Feb, 1762 To dau. -In -law Mary Whitehead, 25 lbs. sterl. To dau. -in -law Susannah Lamar, 25 lbs. sterl. money and clothing, which money and apparel my executor is to pay to sd. Susannah, and sd. Susannah is to dispose of the apparel, amongst her daus. as she shall think proper. To dau.-in-law Pricilla Wickham, 25 lbs. sterl. To Mary Magruder, wife of Jeremiah Magruder, 35 lbs. sterl. and one suit of my clothing. To Ruth Hall, wife of Isaac Hall, clothes. To Susannah Gray, wife of John Gray, 5 lbs. sterl. To John Duvall, 10 lbs. sterl. To Jeremiah Magruder, 10 lbs. sterl. To Margarett Hutton, wife of Richard Hutton, 5 lbs. money. To Robert Tyler, son of my son-in-law Robert Tyler, dec'd., 1 s. sterl. money. To Elizabeth Piddle, dau. of Philip Piddle, 1 s. sterl. 20 lbs. sterl. to be applied by executor to repair the vault at the chappel. Remainder of estate to Daniel Stanton, son of my bro. Daniel Stanton, sd. nephew lately living in Philadelphia. Ex: John Duvall. Wit: Marsh Mareen Duval, Ann Baldwin. 31. 512
Contributor: Fredric Z. Saunders (46875482) • [email address removed]
There are 2 Mary's. This one is not Mary Stanton. https://www.colonial-settlers-md-va.us/getperson.php?personID=I19059&tree=Tree1
edited by Susan (Knight) Gore
12) Money for the upkeep of the vault at the Chappel.
John Duvall named executor.
She is introduced in the will as the Widow of Rev. W. Jacob Henderson late of Price Georges County/
1) She has a nephew Daniel Stanton residing in Philadelphia, son of her brother Daniel Stanton 2) She has a Daughter-in-law, Mary Whitehead 3) Daugher-in-law Susannah _____(Lamon?) 4) Daughter-in-law Pricilla Wickham 5) She wills items to a Mary Magruder w/o Jeremiah Macgruder 6) She wills items to Ruth Hall w/o Isaac Hall 7) She wills items to Susannah Gray w/o John Gray 8) Wills money to Jeremiah Macgruder and John Duvall 9) Wills money to Margaret Hilton w/o Richard Hilton 10) Money to Robert Tyler "Son of my son-in-law Robert Tyler deceased." 11) Money to Elizabeth Piddle d/o Phillip Piddle
Therefore, Mary Stanton was the second wife of the Rev. Jacob Henderson, not his first wife Mary who was the widow of Mareen Duvall and then Henry Ridgely.
For Mary Stanton She married 1. Mr. Dodd She married 2. in 1718 to Robert Tyler She married 3. in 1740 to Jacob Henderson as his second wife She died 1761-1762 in Prince George's County when her will was written and probated.
The other Mary (surname unknown) married 1. Mareen Duvall married 2. Henry Ridgely married 3 Jacob Henderson as his first wife.
So, Jacob Henderson married 1. Mary -?-; m. 2. Mary (Stanton) Tyler.
Jacob Henderson wrote his will in 1751 in Prince George's Co., MD and named (among others) his wife Mary. [Prince George's County wills 1:441 https://familysearch.org/pal:/MM9.3.1/TH-1942-24235-7720-25?cc=1803986&wc=M97S-4GQ:45639241
His widow Mary wrote her will in 1761 in Prince George's County (Wills 1:543) as Mary, widow of the Rev. Jacob Henderson. https://familysearch.org/pal:/MM9.3.1/TH-1942-24235-7266-2?cc=1803986&wc=M97S-4GQ:45639241
Among her bequests were the remainder of her estate to Daniel Stanton, son of her brother Daniel Stanton, the said nephew lately living in Philadelphia. [to be continued 2]
See: http://www.mdlandrec.net/msa/stagser/s1700/s1741/cfm/index.cfm Anne Arundel Co., MD deeds Liber NH, No. 10, page 379 at above page (password free from MD Archives)
9 June 1800 Benjamin Duvall in his 82 year of age said he knew the late Rev. Henderson from the time he the said Benjamin was a boy until Henderson died. Henderson had married the widow of the said Benjamin's grandfather and after her death he married the widow Tyler.....
Robert Tyler married 1718 to the widow Mary Dodd. She is the Mary (widow Tyler) who married Rev. Jacob Henderson. [to be continued]
As mentioned in my private message, this is the record with Mary's birth name and previous husbands. The son, Charles, is the son of Henry Ridgley's second wife, Alice Skinner.