Bear in mind that potential matches with relatives aren't created instantly when you report a test having been taken. So it's possible that if this was a recent merge it may not have propagated yet. OTOH if it's an actual verified match of two living individuals then it should be easy enough to re-enter it even if it did disappear. In that case, the entry into an ancestor's profile just needs to be changed to the new Wiki ID. Of course I'm not totally sure of what propagates and what doesn't since I don't have a known match with a living someone on Wikitree yet, I do have some matches with living people which imply a match with certain ancestors,, but they haven't been triangulated as is needed to say the connection is proven. It's always possible that a DNA connection between two people actually comes from a different line than you believe.