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WikiTree profile: Pip Sheppard
closed with the note: Until next weekend, flourish in all you do!
in The Tree House by Pip Sheppard G2G Astronaut (2.7m points)
closed by Pip Sheppard

Welcome, my fellow WikiChatterboxes, to a mid-May Weekend Chat! And greetings from Cathey’s Creek where the weather has been warm (until cooler yesterday) and where we’ve had a couple of gentle rains to wash the pollen out of the air. This spring has been a hard one for both of us, allergy-wise, due to a heavy pollen season. We’re glad for a rain now and then.

On the Home Front: The painters are DONE! A butter-colored home with deep green shutters. There were some difficult places to get to, so it took a little longer to finish, but it is beautiful now. We’ll be dead by the next time it needs painting. We’ll just keep it clean for the next owners.

My Tucson brother is staying with my WikiTree brother this weekend and will arrive here Monday afternoon or evening. I have not seen him since my last visit out there. We hope to keep him busy enough to enjoy his stay. He is not one to just sit around and visit. He’s a doer. He just passed 1000 hiking miles since his move out to Tucson about three years ago.

I have once again picked up Tolkien’s The Lord of the Rings, in my opinion one of the greatest works of fiction/fantasy. Reading it makes me wish I’s lived in the Shire. Where I grew up was kinda like it. This will be my 20th something time reading this since I first borrowed a copy from a friend 23 years ago.

I have learned how to lift something a little heavier without hurting my shoulder. My left arm I keep straight out while letting the right arm do the hard work. This made it easier to move large pots in which we planted our year’s buy of mandevilla with pink blooms. These die every winter, so we wait until we are sure the last frost has passed us by in the spring before starting over. They are beautiful.

On the Genealogy Front: May seems to be a month of birthdays for many members of my family, some of whom I knew (or almost knew) over the years. Notably…

My Aunt Rosa (Grandpa’s sister) was born 6 May 1882. My g-grandmother (her mother) told my grandmother not to let the children of these two families play together. I could say more, but…

My gggg-grandfather, Solomon Fite, was born 17 May 1797. By virtue of his marriage, he was allowed to be buried in the old Wells Cemetery not far from where I grew up, which cemetery is misnamed in nearly all the internet sources, including FindaGrave, as the Abee Cemetery.

My gg-grandfather, Maclin Kerr, was born 8 May 1810 in Tennessee, he who moved across the mountains in the wrong direction… eastward into the southern Appalachians of North Carolina (don’t most US people move west?).

My mother wanted to name me after my g-uncle Math (Matthew David Underwood) who was born 26 May 1887, but dad wouldn’t go along with it. If you read Uncle Math’s (partially completed) biography, you’ll understand why, that old prejudice against people with mental deficiencies. I never met Uncle Math, but my Grandpa told me many stories about him, so I have this deep affection for his memory. I’ll finish up that bio soon, I promise.

I look forward to hearing about all of you, like I do every week. I’ll be out-and-about this morning, but I’ll catch up like I usually do.

Enjoy the Chat!

Good Morning Chatman! Thanks for the chat. The friendliest branch on the tree.
Poor Uncle Math. If he'd been born now I wonder how different his life might have been with better medical facilities and technology available. I'm glad you are honoring his memory with the bio. I like to think our ancestors smile on the work we do.

Tolkien's masterpiece and the Bible were the "only books" my dad ever finished by his own admission. I like to reread every now and then in his honor.
Pip, I'm really enjoying the books by Jack Whyte I mentioned last week with some interesting new Scots words.

Jalouse-a thing, occas. also a person: to suspect, be suspicious of, to have doubts or suspicions about, guess, surmise

Hi Pip, Happy Birthday to all your family members here and in spirit! Please give my regards to Mike. I am sure you all will have a wonderful time together. I wrote in my post that I finished reading The Sentinels of Andersonville (and wept for a good hour) on Mother's Day. I'm sure you won't mind if I send it to Sanday Patak to read and she can send it to you (a "Wiki-Bookmailbile" so to speak). Traitor Christian, Emery and lemons were my favorite characters. I am wondering who you and Sandy will like best. I can guess for you, but won't say now. Have a great visit! But it would be better if you were visiting here in Tucson!

Thanks for hosting, Pip!

Math's story reminds me of a few family members. =/ It's tough taking care of people sometimes. But, good on your family for taking care of him. Lord knows there are horror stories of people tossing the disabled into asylums never to be heard from again. =/

Great profile!

And as for books, yea we got plenty here. Comic AND print. =D From the Hobbit and Narnia to other classics.
Such a nice bio for your uncle Matt.
Your Uncle Math had a rich life, Pip. Beautiful biological synopsis.

One does not sit in Tucson, Arizona. One actually moves and explore the landscape....with a hat and sunscreen on... with a jug of cold water.
Did I mention a while back that my older brother was going to the Monaco Grand Prix race? He leaves today for Barcelona.

He said this about the trip "Fly to Barcelona then take a small cruise boat to Monaco - live on the boat during the racing then boat back to Barcelona - fly to Frankfurt then spend 8 days driving in a Porsche 911. I know its tough someone has to do it. "
@M Ross: Ah, such a life! I hope he enjoys every second.
I think it's a 70th b-day present to himself!
I would have been happy to go along and read from a guide book!

Hiya Pip! 

Thanks for hosting with the mosting! I enjoyed Math's bio. Although it seems obvious, I don't thin I have ever encountered a shortening of the name Matthew as Math. I like it. 

Your mention of LotR (which my brother gave me, and I read, when I was 14, and already a SFF nerd) made me think of one of my favorite series to reread (at least 5 times so far) the Wheel of Time series by Robert Jordan, finished by Brandon Sanderson after Jordan passed away. I know Tolkein is on Wikitree, and C. S. Lewis, so I tried searching for Jordan (James Oliver Rigney Jr.) and Sanderson, and couldn't find either. Now I'm thinking of making it a project to make sure all my favorite authors are on wikitree. At least Bujold is already up there. It's a start, lol.

Oooo, Wheel of Time. What a great series. Momo, have you read the Sword of Truth series by Goodkind? Another great one!

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Happy Friday Everyone! I had a lot going on and actually forgot that today is Friday until a while ago. We just had a rather noisey thunderstorm but so far escaped the predicted large hail. We have some container tomatoes growing on the patio and our son rushed down and moved the containers just in case!

Genealogically speaking, I took a dive into transcribing some wills of four of my ancestors and added the slaves that were willed to family members. In doing so, I solved some wrong information about the deaths of a couple. The husband's will was written in 1779 but was not probated until 1835. Curiously, his wife wrote a will in 1827 and it was probated in 1828. In that time period, why would a wife write a will which did not include the same children as the husband? In fact, she included grandchildren and even said those children were deceased. It seems that, digging a bit farther, the husband's will was not discovered when he died but was found after the wife died. Mystery - did she hide it or did she even know about hubby's will? Anyway this got me hooked and so I have joined the US Black History Project. I figured I would need help as this journey progresses.

Tomorrow, I am traveling over to East Texas (about two and a half hours from where I live) to meet my deceased cousin's daughter - my first cousin once removed. She and I have been cleaning out my aunt's (her grandmother's) house which was passed to her father, my cousin. We have spend several years going through a lot of items, throwing away the vast majority but my goal was to rescue all the family papers we could find. Now, she has sold the house and is having the few pieces of furniture that she wants moved to Houston on Tuesday morning. I will be there for moral support and one last good-bye to the house. It has been there for over about 70 years and was part of my grandparent's property. I have been going there since I was born so this will be bittersweet but, at this point, time to say adieu! We also plan to take flowers to the cemetery where my grandparents and two sets of aunts and uncles plus two of my first cousins are buried.

As always, thanks so much, Pip, for hosting our weekend chat; it is fun to read what everyone is doing - especially you! Take care and have a great weekend.
by Virginia Fields G2G Astronaut (1.2m points)
Hi Ginny, I wish you well on this journey of rememberances and goodbyes. Safe travels!
Ginny, I know the feeling. My grandparents, who lived just across the pasture from us, sold their home when they went to a nursing home. It is a business now, and the owner is very gracious when we come by to visit. He is always interested in our stories. I really miss the place.
Yippee! Welcome to the project!  Where in East Texas are you visiting? My momma was from Lindale close to Tyler, TX.
I am going a little farther east to Longview. I know exactly where Lindale is and sometimes we go through there if we travel a few miles south and then take I-20 over to Longview. Today, I am cutting off before Lindale and taking Hwy 80. I don't like fighting all the 18 wheelers!!
No kidding. I-20 gets nutty. Safe travels!
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Greetings from Rochester, Minnesota USA!!

Current Temp: 57°F ish.

Air Quality Index: 26 which is better than yesterday!

If you are in Canada, stay safe. We had hazy and smoky days in Minnesota and it makes me hard for some people to breathe. I was wondering why I got headaches lately. Not fun.

Grades: A in Microbiology and C+ in Anatomy and Physiology. 3.0 GPA from Spring Semester. The general education requirements are completed.

Genealogy: I've wondered about my family history. My tree looks kinda of cryptic. Within the branches there is drama, disease and madness. Sometimes, there are ancestors who kept secrets or embellished their age. Yes, my father was 50% European and 50% African decent.. similar to Henry Louis Gates Jr.

May is a somber month for me: My father has two birthdays. Birthday: May 6 and Birthday into eternal life: May 28. My father was very fragile.

Anyway, I am still here.
by Eileen Robinson G2G6 Pilot (204k points)
edited by Eileen Robinson
Hi Eileen and we are well pleased that you are still here! Congratuations on your grades and the 3.0! That is fabulous with all that you ahve going on.

Please know that I will hold you and your father in my positive intentions for his birthday and his heavenly birthday. It is something to have a parent die and while our suffering lightens over time, it never goes away.

Genealogy: these, I believe, are things that every WikiTreer can say they've found in their families, some more than others.

My light perpetual shine on your father, Eileen.

Thanks Carol and Pip!!

**Eileen goes into editor mode**

Is just me or do both Carol and Pip have autocorrect issues? Or was a few words mistyped or misspelled?
Autocorrect doesn't work here. All it does is identify a word that I can't spell even when it lets me know.
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On this day:

1570: Abraham Ortelius publishes the first modern atlas

1734: The Slovenian apiarist Anton Janša is born

1867: Queen Victoria lays the foundation stone of the Royal Albert Hall

by Jelena Eckstädt G2G Astronaut (1.5m points)
I learned what an apiarist is today. We have a few apiarist in Rochester, Minnesota!

This is good information, Jelena! Thanks for sharing!
@ Eileen You might also like to look at Lorenzo Lorraine Langstroth. He is credited for some of the more modern beekeeping equipment and apiculture standards, if interested. The only insect more fascinating than the lonely ant is the high flying bee.
Hi Jelena, Happy Saturday! I will go with Queen Vicky laying the foundation stone for the Royal Albert Hall!
I'm late but have some time tonight. Royal Albert Hall for me! Thanks, Professor!
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Goodmorning, or Guten Morgen! I'm preparing for the online session with the German team. Really looking forward to it.

by Michel Vorenhout G2G6 Pilot (317k points)
Awesome Michel! Enjoy the session.
Hope all went well with your meeting, Michel!
Yes, it was a wonderful meeting with many of us. Hope these will be repeated, and maybe copied by other local teams.
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Aloha

This week was kind of crappy. I was home sick 3 days. It would've been great to take 3 days off any time. Just not when you're sick. Mother's day weekend was nice. I took my wife to a place called Villa Amore last Saturday. She loves that restaurant. I do as well Then Sunday we went to her parents. Which kind of sucked. Only because every time I go over there. My allergic reaction to their cat gets worse. Which may have contributed to my staying home from work. No allergy medicine has helped. The previous week I uploaded a couple more videos of me just strumming the guitar. I haven't really done much with it this week. I'm about to start work on my next song. I will probably mow my lawn today.

Genealogy stuff has been a bit more steady. Still working on the Ashley branch of my tree. They're are many.
by Paul Kreutz G2G6 Pilot (129k points)
Not good being sick, Paul. You ok now?

Villa Amore = the House of Love. Good show there, Paul. You know how to do it right.
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Dear Pip and all, who live far from Everett, Washington:

Today is housecleaning day. I am due at the Pioneer Cemetery in about two hours, where a crew of us Historical Society folk will remove branches, cones, etc. from the grounds and clean the headstones. This year, the placing of the international flags and the Japanese offerings is scheduled for later in the week, so that they will be more fresh come Memorial Day.

I have been creating African-American profiles recently. I'm trying to find a connection for Mary Wilson of the Supremes. I am glad to see her CC7 count rising.

The weather here is wonderful. It's not a heat wave, despite what you may have heard.

I think about the Lord of the Rings nearly every day, both book and films. It is a meditation on grace and free will.

I have been sticking to the diet and expect to see a good report next week. A great deal of ice cream (expecting a heat wave) was bought, but I have stayed away.

May you all be blessed. Next weekend is the big prep for my speech and presence at the Memorial Day Ceremony.
by Margaret Summitt G2G6 Pilot (321k points)
We did massive cleanup in the cemetery around the grave stone of Joseph Radley [[Radley-261]] If you look at the photo on Find A Grave memorial #13333730, you will see a lot of ivy around the base. That ivy is now GONE. It was undermining the grave marker. When the cemetery was restored by the city in the 1990s, the stone marker was found broken and was set upright in its base with cement around the edges. The cement through water and weather has separated from the stone. The cement needs caulking to hold the stone in place. The stone even has ivy carved into it.

My theory is that ivy was planted at the grave marker, and by the 1960s it took over the entire cemetery. Ivy is a symbol of everlasting life, meaning you can never get rid of it. It was reduced to a circle around the stone when the city restored the cemetery, and it just dug in. We dug it out today, but we know it will come back.

My son George did yeoman work clipping and digging at roots. We were joined by a local resident walking his dog, and he turned out to be an old-timer full of stories that I simply must interview. He and his friends used to eat their Halloween candy at Joseph's grave because it was a spooky place to them.
Margaret, how many burials in the cemetery. There's one near me that apparently used to have an association, but I bet they've not been in action for a couple of decades at least. Some sections of the cemetery are an absolute mess. I guess I'll have to go over there myself and do some clean up. Good for y'all for doing what needed to be done at yours!
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Alright, hi all on this Saturday afternoon from Germany.

I just left the German research party. Those were (for me) 3 1/2 hours of intense presenting the research results the Germany Project found out about the people who were put in the thread about the party.

This week was intense. On Tuesday we bought plants for our balcony and planted them. We then chatted again with my removed cousin and then finally booked the tickets for the flight to Serbia. So finally we will go to see that part of the family again. I can't wait, there are new kids that were born, I really want to see them.
And then there is the week trip coming up too. Slowly but surely we really have to go in the details and see what we will do there.

So the next week will also be interesting, but before that I wish you all a nice Sunday. Stay safe!
by Jelena Eckstädt G2G Astronaut (1.5m points)

I heard about the German research party through the Appalachia group! Thank you so much for doing that! I really hope that another one is planned. I have lines on my wife's family that could use the German touch. wink

I hope your trip to Serbia will be fun with visiting family. laugh You'll have to keep us updated.

I hope you have a wonderful trip
You've got some traveling on your schedule,. Jelena! Good for you. Glad you mom is going, too. That oughta be fun.  Can't wait to hear how the trip to Serbia goes.
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My output is going to be slow until August. 

This past week was the usual suspects, nothing greatly new. 

  • DNA matches. I'm up to 91 citations. Technically I've had 6 more identified than citations (so 97 in total), but they are either duplicates (different tests) or complex relationships I just haven't gotten around to adding. Now that I'm getting close to 100, I'll see about getting all the citations on.
  • Worked on my Suggestion list. I'm nearing a milestone, but not there yet. Probably in the next week.
  • Weddington Name Study - Doing some reorganizing of research goals and plans to keep track what's been in my head for awhile. Found land records (or at least the index pages) for some early ancestors. Going to be looking at those and more court records.
  • Worked on my supposed relationships to Jamestowne Society Qualifying Ancestors. A few weeks back I was surprised to learn I had relationships to 16 qualifying ancestors. Well, you know how that goes. That's so far back that there are many uncertainties on these lineages. So I spent some time working on them and was able to confirm some bad connections and, in one case, a conflated profile. I disconnected some lines and now I have connections to 6 Qualifying Ancestors. Two of these have multiple uncertainties. Three others need research on one particular ancestor that they flow through that has some challenges regarding identity. But I do have one connection that actually looks promising. It also happens to be the shortest path out of all of the connections at 10 generations back. I will need to verify 2 relationships along the path to make the connection confident. But this is a back-burner project. No, I have no idea if I want to join the Jamestowne Society, but it's just fun to see if I can pull everything together to see if I might qualify.

And of course the usual miscellaneous stuff in a week.

by Eric Weddington G2G6 Pilot (520k points)
edited by Eric Weddington
So, you've got a busy summer coming up, Eric? I'm trying to figure out the trips that we can take (short ones around here) to get us out of town for a change.
Very much so. I'll keep you in suspense and tell you more when it's all over. ;-) But it's all good stuff.

Is a trip to see the ocean in order for you?

To the ocean? Mebbe! (If I can convince my wife to ride that far.) laugh

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Greetings from my soggy little town (pop.672 at the last census) of Nelson. We are getting what they like to call 'drizzle' today which is just enough to knock the pollen count down a bit.

There's not much to report on from this week's activities. The college-going grandchildren are on summer break and the high-schooler will matriculate from junior to senior. Where does the time go?

@Chris F - I hope that the fire in your town yesterday was not you.

In local news ... the director of our Historical Society of Cheshire County recently won the New Hampshire Preservation Alliance Award for 2023. The Alliance is a highly regarded voice for preservation and a resource for hundreds of members and partners.

Yeah. That's about it from here. Enjoy the week ahead as best you can everyone.

by Candyce Fulford G2G6 Pilot (119k points)
Candyce, what did the director of the historical society do to earn that wonderful award?
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Hello hello!

It is sunny, clear 80 degree day in Eugene, Oregon. I have spent it cleaning up the garage because last Sunday we had a garage sale, and the remains have been languishing all week, waiting for me to get back to it. Because last Sunday was Mother's Day, AND it was my birthday, so I knew my kids would be at my disposal for the entire day, and what better conditions to hold a garage sale? Except that happened to be the hottest day of the whole darn week, well into the 90s, ugh. But now there s more room in the garage, we can actually walk the entire perimeter, with a little effort.

For my birthday one kid gave me a live orchid, and the other, prudently, gave me a Lego orchid, I can't kill that one.

My genealogical energy this week has been spread over WT, my local gen library, and webinars. I had some work done on my older computer, and now it's almost as fast as my newer computer, and with extra storage, so now I'm trying to consolidate all my gen stuff and be organized, something i seem to be perpetually beginning anew. My newer computer is used primarily for work and gaming. cheeky Not at the same time! Stop that. 

by Momo Holmquist G2G6 Mach 4 (48.8k points)

Hmm... I thought y'all were having hotter weather around your area, Momo. Further north I guess? (90s are pretty high for you.

A Lego orchid. You just gotta love it!

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Hi everyone mail

I think it's rather fitting that the song, on the radio right now, is "The living daylights" by AHA. So what has been going on in my life for the past few days?

In my personal life: My psychologist says I have been experiencing panic attacks since December. Now that I know what has been going on in my brain, now we know how to handle it. 

In the weather: We had to much rain that we almost drowned (not really) then it didn't rain for a few days. So we froze instead. Then we nearly drowned again. Yesterday we thawed out. Today we are nearly blowing into the sea. All of this is going on while we have a drought and loadshedding. And it has just started raining...again.

On the family tree side of things: While I was entering my granny's (on my dad's side) siblings information, I saw that there's another lady (Nancy) who has the same (almost) information as one of my granny's sisters. So I asked my dad if it was the same lady. That's when I discovered her husband was in the Royal Air Force in England and he was a leader, of some sort, in the ranks. And when I was 6 months old, Nancy sent me a toy rabbit because her married surname was Warren and her husband's nickname was...Bunny. But I am far from the end of my search.

by Living Buttrum G2G6 Mach 1 (15.0k points)
Now that's some crazy weather there, Keren! You must live right on the coast.

Warren... Bunny... how perfect. Let us know if you did up any info on Nancy's husband's service.
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On this day:

1521: Philip II. of Spain is born

1743: Catharina Treu, a German still-life painter and first female member of an Academy of fine arts in the German-speaking area, is born

1991: The former Indian Prime Minister Rajiv Gandhi is assasinated

by Jelena Eckstädt G2G Astronaut (1.5m points)
Catherina Treu for me tonight while I am greeting. Thanks, Professor!
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Hi,

I am a newbie and mostly trying to find my way around. I would be happy to know, how to maintain my growing tree, as clean as possible. Any wikitree arborists around here ?

I am interested in indigenous people. I know I have at least Sami.

A bit about me. A creative energy medicine coach, who believes in science equally. As my wise daughter said: We are service humans. People tend to come to us, to share from their hearts, and we hold the space, listen deeply and use the toolkits we have collected. Around 25+ years, I have been collecting toolkits to be a ‘good’ service human.

Otherwise I love using my hands, healing(reiki,shamanic,mi’ism), massage, DIY,  karate, yoga, gardening, playing instruments, art, sewing, repair/restoration, interior/exterior design and so on.

I am open minded, curious, empath, honest and if you feel called to reach out, just do so.
by Mi Westberg G2G4 (4.8k points)
That's a lot of interests there, Mi! I cannot find the time to keep up with the few that I have.

Keeping your profiles clean: Just make sure that you have documentary sources for all the data you present, including the connections to a previous generation. If you ever get stuck (and I have... often), just ask in our G2G forum. Lots of members are willing to help, even experienced people like me when I get stuck!
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Aloha again

Saturday I was mowing the yard. Probably working the mower a bit harder than I should've been, It slipped the belt for the self propelled pulley. Not a big deal, easy fix. It takes about 5 minutes for me. Any how, there I was swearing like a field heavy equipment mechanic. I was walking from my backyard to my service truck to grab a screwdriver. When out of nowhere, a friendly neighbor, That works for the same company as I do, as an equipment operator. Comes flying across the street, mows the rest of my yard. While I'm fixing my mower. Stops on his riding lawn mower. Flips me off, we exchange some NC-17 level swearing a each other. Then he vanishes across the street back to his house. It's nice having a helpful neighbor. Just thought I would share that.
by Paul Kreutz G2G6 Pilot (129k points)
I with I had a video of all of that!
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Hello everyone! Just checking in before your weekend is over although mine last for one more day. Tomorrow is Victoria Day here in Canada and the unofficial start to summer holidays. Lots of people open their cottages or plant gardens or go away for the long weekend, although we are still having frost at night where I live in Ottawa.

I was asked today to be a guide on the Trans-Canada Trail to help them out. I was quite surprized but I will be helping someone with the profile of a French Canadian person which is where I have done the most work. Hopefully I can do a good job.
by Liza Gervais G2G6 Pilot (393k points)
Very cool that you are helping with the Trans-Canada Trail. What a fine way to introduce someone to research there, Liza! I loved my experiences with the Orphan Trail (England) and the Tartan Trail (Scotland).

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