G2G: 52 Ancestors Week 21: An Unexpected Strength [closed]

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From Amy Johnson Crow: Week 21:

The theme for Week 21 is “An Unexpected Strength.” Strength comes in many forms. Who is someone in your family tree who was strong, even though the deck was stacked against them?

True strength comes from within the heart. Countless shows, movies and comics have taught me that. 

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in The Tree House by Golden Owl (1.0m points)

Sailing across the ocean with two toddlers in 1929 in late October? Yeah, I couldn't do that. https://allroadhaverhill.blogspot.com/2026/05/52-ancestors-week-21-unexpected-strength.html

I'm late again, but here is my connection: I started in Prussia, Unconnected and found in a branch I looked at Hubert Wynhoff. He was born near the Germany/Netherlands border. The location field was filled in English. Then I added his daughter Mary (Wynhoff) Hay whose father-in-law Edward Murray Hay was already in the database.

The (not so unexpected) strength is that the Germany Project is available to help you find the correct location naming for German locations. It can be really complicated, but we aspire for historically correct locations written out in German.


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No Need to Shout

My father Reino R Sarlin (1908–1993) was the agency forester for the Navajo Nation, possessor of the largest Ponderosa Pine (Pinus ponderosa) forest in the world, running west from the Arizona/New Mexico border to the Grand Canyon and south to the Mogollon Rim.  This vast, unbroken expanse covers approximately 2.6 million acres.  The agency forester is both a manager and a steward, ensuring that Navajo forests remain productive, economic, ecologically sound, and culturally significant for the foreseeable future.  Included was the organisation, training, and operations of specialized wildland firefighting crews.

As an extra duty, he served as the Fire Chief of all fire departments in the towns on the large Navajo Reservation.  This came in handy for me as an 11-year-old Boy Scout pursuing my Fire Safety Merit Badge.  Not only did I have access to the local fire station as the “Chief’s son”, but on occasion I was riding in his vehicle when a fire call came in.

Thus it was one day in 1955 when a tar paper shack in nearby Fort Defiance, Arizona, caught fire.  Tar paper is a tar-impregnated heavy-duty roofing and siding material.  It’s inexpensive, durable, and waterproof, and until shortly after World War II wooden frames covered with tar paper were a common form of temporary or low-cost permanent buildings.  The material is unexpectedly strong but burns rapidly if set alight.

A few minutes after the call we arrived on scene, but the building, about the size of a one-story Army barracks, was fully involved, with multiple fire trucks and hose crews suppressing the fire with water and stopping its spread to nearby buildings and woods.

Dad pulled up and stopped the vehicle, and his Deputy Chief Ernie Bowman, a Navajo WWII Army veteran who had risen to the rank of Army Captain (the highest rank attained by a Navajo), calmly stepped up and softly tapped on the driver's side window.

Dad rolled the window down and Ernie said quietly: “Excuse me, Chief, but you’re parked on the fire hose.  Could you move back a few feet, please?”

I never saw Dad, a genuine man of action, move more promptly and efficiently than in the next few nanoseconds.  Those few soft words had enormous strength, much more than yelling or swearing would have had.

I learned a powerful lesson that often came in handy in my later work, whether fighting fires or in law enforcement, combat, construction, mining, or oil & gas around the world.

by Owl (198k points)

Well, Ray, this really brought back many memories of enjoyable times at the Navajo Nation (1966, 1969, 1983) with its people and the great experiences I had amongst one of my favorite trees, the Ponderosa pine! I’m thankful for your father’s work and the Diné as stewards of these treasures of the world. Walking amongst them was always a special treat, almost a spiritual experience. These giants of the forest, with their bark smelling of vanilla always lifted my spirits.

I worked as a firefighter for the US Forest Service in Los Padres National Forest in California and can truly appreciate your father’s love of nature and his sacrifices for the land.

Hey Frank, thanks for the kind words.  Your "spiritual" comment resonated from my three summers working on the Coconino National Forest, which was one of the best times of my life.  Ray

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My paternal grandmother, Else Stegen, had trained as a secretarial assistant prior to WWII, but a war marriage (1942) and the subsequent birth of two children in 1943 and 1945 respectively had made her quit her job in our native Lüneburg's district administration.  She then not only cared for family and the home but also nursed her mother-in-law (who died from stomach cancer at home in 1952) as well as her own parents, and after the death of her father in 1964, she also took care of her invalid sister. All of this showed her strength but wasn't unexpected - many women of her times (and before!) did what my grandmother did. What was unexpected was this: Widowed sadly in 1967 (my grandfather was a workaholic and died from a heart attack at age 52), my grandmother knocked on the door of the district director - after 25 years of being out of that job! -, applied for her old position, and rose to become the chief secretary of the district administration! surprise Now, that was unexpected strength, and even almost 20 years after her death in 2007, she is still a shining example for her grandchildren's generation who witnessed her determinacy and excellence as a government employee. heart

by Owl (495k points)

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I want to point to an ancestor who really subverted my expectations in the best way.

Many of my ancestors on my mom's side were freemasons. To me, this was just some hoity toity background on the family I had known but didn't really understand. We didn't grow up as freemason-types. Lol. In full transparency, I assumed the freemasons were probably not "for Black people", and my father is African American. So, by extent, I assumed that part of my family history was not "for me", at least not for now.

And then I found an obituary for my 2x g grandma Pauline Storey (https://www.wikitree.com/wiki/Ester-176), of Alabama, whose mother Melinda was almost certainly born a slave. It mentioned she was a member of something called OES Adella Chapter 230. I Googled it and wouldn't you know: it's a Mason auxiliary chapter, still active today. She has expanded my mind and piqued my curiosity in regards to both sides of my family and what the masons meant to them each as individuals. (I also found my maternal 3x g grandfather Jeremiah Eldredge (https://www.wikitree.com/wiki/Eldredge-688) was a Mason and seemed to be a bit of a passionate Unionist and Liberationist for Cuba).

Never let your biases keep you from investigating the truth! I'm glad my ancestor reached out and taught me that.
by Owl (21.1k points)

Thanks, Kahlil, for sharing this helpful research experience!

Now, there's something weird going on with the link you posted for your 2ggm; when I click it, I get the error "page doesn't exist". But when I enter Ester-176, I can see her profilesurprise


You make a good point, Khalil. My maternal grandfather and many others on my mom's side were also freemasons, and Mom was in the Order of the Eastern Star (OES). I was aware of that growing up but never understood what it meant (even though I was inducted into DeMolay at boarding school).  I just ignored that stuff and focused on whatever was important to me at the time.  Dad was a life-long Elk, but to me that just meant watching baseball on the TV in the Elks Club in Gallup, NM while waiting on our biweekly shopping trips to head home to the Navajo Rez.

Per Oliver's comment, just remove the ")." from your link to fix it.

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