I'm still looking. If you haven't been to this site, it has their children listed. I'm still looking for Marinda's parents.
Thomas Gay Family History by Della Sue Curry Jones pg 19.
EDWARD GAY was born Abt. 1839 in Perry County, Kentucky. He married (1) MARINDA COUCH Abt. 1857. She was born Abt. 1836 in Perry County, Kentucky.