Time without 400 people pulling me in a thousand different directions at the same time. I was under the impression that life slowed down in retirement. I was hoping. It apparently is busier than a house full of two year olds! I don't even have time to even breathe these days.
Beyond that, I would love to know who my real mtDNA line 3rd great-grandparents are. I say "real" because many people have parents listed for them, but those people with a daughter with the same name is not my 2nd great-grandmother. While both their Maggie and my Maggie allegedly were born in Alabama, their Maggie died in Alabama in 1922 (I think) and my Maggie died in South Carolina in 1926. I have a digital copy of her death certificate showing my great-grandfather (her son-in-law) as the informant, so I know that I have the correct death certificate for the correct woman.
I have either tested or uploaded to the main 4 - Ancestry, 23andMe, MyHeritage, and FTDNA (upload of Ancestry test) as well as the highest level mtDNA test on FTDNA. We apparently have a rare mtDNA haplogroup - U6b2, recently further refined to U6b2a. I only have one gen distance 0, and his brickwall is with his grandma.
I can't find any marriage records for my 2nd great-grandparents. I have the probate pkg and will for my 2nd great-grandfather's mother. She mentions him (her son) and his children by name (married names, too), but does not mention his wife at all.
None of my Leeds columns appear to point to her. At this point, I am beginning to wonder if she is truly an alien, or if maybe my 2nd great-grandpa had been previously married and my great-grandma came from that earlier marriage. But I have found no marriage records for him at all.
Of course, the 1890 census, which could answer some questions, had to go and get destroyed <grumble grumble).
There is more I could say about this hair-pulling ancestor, but I will stop for now.
The genealogy-related Christmas gift that I'd love to have is her true identity and, as said at the beginning, TIME!
Merry Christmas, everybody!